"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you really have to have it all to have a girlfriend?

ziminxe79

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Do you think most girls wont date a guy if he does not have a car? Or money?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Eccentric

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You forgot the ten inch penis.
 

Driven2Succeed

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i dunno, depends on the girl..

i have a subaru wrx sti, lots of money, steady job in the military and im still single..mostly by choice, got out of a 1 year ltr in march but rite now i am happy just doing my own thing..

obviously these things play a large role but they arent everything.. just be working towards them if u dont already have them..

owen

ps - big **** definitely wont hurt ur chances either
 

Delta

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it matters less the younger you are. who isn't a starving college kid or struggle right after school? and your age would peg you right about there. it is almost a "rite of passage" and societally accepted so you should be fine. (poverty and youth goes together hand in hand and is almost sexy in its way... but poverty and AGE does not work. start working toward your goals NOW!)

also, there are TONS of ugly ugly ugly, poor poor poor people who have not only girl friends but wives.

it sounds like you've had a run of bad luck or you're an afc that just doesn't know how this stuff works... which is cool... i'm right there with ya buddy. start reading the dj bible... link at the bottom of page.

luck

delta
 
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