Do you open the car door for girls?

[zekko]

It works for me. Obviously, I don’t do it all the time - only on special nights and not so often that it becomes predictable. And yeah, I give a rose. It’s $6.99 at the grocery store, not exactly a grand sacrifice. Plus, I’ve already said it only works when she’s intrigued and desires me. I’m not just handing out gestures for nothing - I do it because I like the girl and she likes me back.

Oh, I'm not criticizing, do whatever you like. I'm just sharing. I personally haven't found that setting a romantic frame works that well for me, or is adequately appreciated. It's kind of like how some guys don't like to call it a "date" when they go out, because it sets up certain expectations and pressures. That's the closest to how I can explain it.

 

[The Duke]

Be yourself. Do what works for you. Realize that everyone assigns different values to different acts.

One thing that shouldn't be argued is that little things matter to women and its about how you make them feel. They all want to feel special at times.

 

[BeExcellent]

Be yourself. Do what works for you. Realize that everyone assigns different values to different acts.

One thing that shouldn't be argued is that little things matter to women and its about how you make them feel. They all want to feel special at times.

Bear in mind that these are kindnesses that cost nothing too. Things that make a girl feel cared for that cost nothing can serve a man well.

 

[Sophisticator]

Bear in mind that these are kindnesses that cost nothing too. Things that make a girl feel cared for that cost nothing can serve a man well.

Showing your woman consideration makes her feel loved, knowing she's in your thoughts through your actions. These type of things are like knowing how to treat her. Even if it's something simple like knowing how she drinks her coffee (I have a lover who finally realised her husband didn't care about her, because he didn't know how she drank her coffee after living with her for ten years) or taking her for Valentine to the place where you first kissed.

And before some of the more negative members started bawling how this is 'simp behaviour': this is how couples pair-bond. I understand if some of you don't want to pair bond because you're into upping your 'lay-count', but some members might want to be more intimate with women than using them as tissues.

 

[HaleyBaron]

If I feel like it. Next question.

Showing your woman consideration makes her feel loved, knowing she's in your thoughts through your actions. These type of things are like knowing how to treat her. Even if it's something simple like knowing how she drinks her coffee (I have a lover who finally realised her husband didn't care about her, because he didn't know how she drank her coffee after living with her for ten years) or taking her for Valentine to the place where you first kissed.

And before some of the more negative members started bawling how this is 'simp behaviour': this is how couples pair-bond. I understand if some of you don't want to pair bond because you're into upping your 'lay-count', but some members might want to be more intimate with women than using them as tissues.

It's simp behavior. You don't pair bond with dates and roses. You pair bond by proving you're a man to her. All the girls that remember me remember me cause I am who I am, not cause I took her to Starbucks like any average guy can do.