The more I talk to people the more I understand how different we all are. Look at people at this board, we have people who love weight lifting, people who love to paint, play guitar, listen to rap, who loves cars others like poetry, some find surfing to be cool, a few of us like to fish, others to party...
All these people come to this board to improve their life to some degree. As many who want to improve themselves this many definitions there is of the word Don Juan. A Don Juan is not someone who is good with women, who love to climb mountains, who love to do something. The whole thing about the Don Juan is our own ideal we have. The person we long to be.
You see, when I first came here I tried to adapt to what people told me was a Don Juan. I changed my life to fit it, and as you understand this way I never could be happy. Now I strive for who I want to be. We all want to be different things and as long as we journy towards our ideal we are becoming more a DJ, we are becoming more content with our lives. The more true we are too ourselves and the less self illusions we have on what we want the more content we will become with life.
It took me quiet some time to ditch techniques and the player role. Because I am not a person who enjoy the sensation of being a player because it doesn't improve my life the way I want. The more I strived for what I wanted to be the more I understood what I wanted to get in a woman too. I cannot see the point of sleeping with women and not moving forward in life, in my opinion life is the most important part. This is my way, it is not correct for anyone else than me.
You see, there is over 3 billion females on the planet and exactly the same amount are unique. The first step as a DJ is to understand what you are really looking for. You see, all women will not respond to the exact same thing. Any person who says they know what women want is decieving themselves (yeah you can give me a good slap for my arrogance
). There is only a statistical probablility that women will like a thing. And whatever you do in life there is always women interested in you if you go for it.
My point is, if you strive for reaching your ideal the women interested will be quality women who you will fit really well with. A person sitting at home eating chips might find a perfect match that reinforces his negative traits and make him feel good. A person striving to reach for his goals and his ideal will find women who find him interesting for this.
You see like attracts like, and if you play a role, you will attract people who identify with this role you play. It will be hard to find what you are really looking for. If you are true to yourself and all the time get closer and closer to your ideal life you will find women who fit you very well. IF YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT AND SET STANDARDS ON THE THINGS YOU WANT IN YOUR LIFE YOU WILL FIND WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR. This means you will be rejection more women than you accept, but the quality of these women will be very high. And the you reach your ideal the more natural you can be and attract the ladies.
Feel free to leave a comment or your thoughts on the subject.
All these people come to this board to improve their life to some degree. As many who want to improve themselves this many definitions there is of the word Don Juan. A Don Juan is not someone who is good with women, who love to climb mountains, who love to do something. The whole thing about the Don Juan is our own ideal we have. The person we long to be.
You see, when I first came here I tried to adapt to what people told me was a Don Juan. I changed my life to fit it, and as you understand this way I never could be happy. Now I strive for who I want to be. We all want to be different things and as long as we journy towards our ideal we are becoming more a DJ, we are becoming more content with our lives. The more true we are too ourselves and the less self illusions we have on what we want the more content we will become with life.
It took me quiet some time to ditch techniques and the player role. Because I am not a person who enjoy the sensation of being a player because it doesn't improve my life the way I want. The more I strived for what I wanted to be the more I understood what I wanted to get in a woman too. I cannot see the point of sleeping with women and not moving forward in life, in my opinion life is the most important part. This is my way, it is not correct for anyone else than me.
You see, there is over 3 billion females on the planet and exactly the same amount are unique. The first step as a DJ is to understand what you are really looking for. You see, all women will not respond to the exact same thing. Any person who says they know what women want is decieving themselves (yeah you can give me a good slap for my arrogance
). There is only a statistical probablility that women will like a thing. And whatever you do in life there is always women interested in you if you go for it. My point is, if you strive for reaching your ideal the women interested will be quality women who you will fit really well with. A person sitting at home eating chips might find a perfect match that reinforces his negative traits and make him feel good. A person striving to reach for his goals and his ideal will find women who find him interesting for this.
You see like attracts like, and if you play a role, you will attract people who identify with this role you play. It will be hard to find what you are really looking for. If you are true to yourself and all the time get closer and closer to your ideal life you will find women who fit you very well. IF YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT AND SET STANDARDS ON THE THINGS YOU WANT IN YOUR LIFE YOU WILL FIND WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR. This means you will be rejection more women than you accept, but the quality of these women will be very high. And the you reach your ideal the more natural you can be and attract the ladies.
Feel free to leave a comment or your thoughts on the subject.
