"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do you go out even when it's cold, like 30 degrees at night?

Poonani Maker

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I want to hit the bars tonight but it's so damn cold. I'm thinking of wearing a t-shirt just so the chicks'll strike up a conversation with me in line to the club. "Why don't you have a coat, man!?" I think I'm tough enough to grin and bear the cold. I've done the impossible in the cold in my job with no heater so what's a little standing around in the cold gonna hurt?

I wanna fvck tonight or at least get girls dreaming about fvcking me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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xj220

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I like being able to wear a jacket since it makes me look bigger (or at least not so skinny) and you have more options in terms of clothing. Where the hell do you live anyways that it's so cold? Still 75 at night here.
 

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i still go to clubs in the winter. it doesnt make a difference since your going to be inside the whole time and its funny seeing the sluts who wear mini skirts freezing their ass off.
 

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actionjaxson said:
its funny seeing the sluts who wear mini skirts freezing their ass off.
LOL i know exactly what your talkin about.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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