"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do you ever take a breather from dating?

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the_stig

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Been down on my luck lately; having a hard time getting second dates, maintaining interest, getting flaked on, etc. I can sense i'm starting to get bitter and angry and was thinking maybe taking a short hiatus from the dating scene wouldn't be a terrible idea.

I don't even think the problem is me. I'm fit, told i'm very handsome, funny.. but it feels like any decent girl these days has more options than she knows what to do with. Five or ten years ago locking a girl down wasn't a problem, now if I can keep them around for a month or two i'm doing well. I'm in the best shape of my life too.

Before I get off topic.. do you guys ever take a step back from dating when you feel like you're getting burned out?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I take a breather from all things, i never focus on one thing too much
 
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yeah, i took a big one for about 7 years. i was single and didn't have sex for 7 years i sh1t you not. i was always home though and never went out so i didn't meet any girls. soon as i started going out and dating girls (recently) i found it really stressing and exhausting to be honest and im glad i found a decent girl for now cause i can't see myself doin the whole dating thing again for a while lol.
 
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