"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

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Do women talk obnoxiously, offensive regularly?

picard

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Do women tend to talk obnoxiously and rude frequently nowadays? I signed up for dating website but I get alot of offensive comments from women for no reason. Have you guys experience this behavior from women in bars, pubs, workplace?

The website is called www.plentyoffish.com
 

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DJDamage

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Originally posted by picard
Do women tend to talk obnoxiously and rude frequently nowadays? I signed up for dating website but I get alot of offensive comments from women for no reason. Have you guys experience this behavior from women in bars, pubs, workplace?

The website is called www.plentyoffish.com
Some women are. Those type of women are called Evil B1tches. They are usually misrable creatures with low self-esteem issues and enjoy tearing others down to make themselves feel better. Be glad that they showed their true face early on and you don't have to find their real personality down the road. NEXT!!
 

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They called sh!t tests to me. They test my composure, if they can't bother me with their insults, they throw their bodies at me. Kind of scary, but true.

If they talk obnoxiously, and offensively regularly, there is probably something pissing them off. I take it as a sh!t test to see if I can find the problem, fix it, and at the same time not give a **** that it's happening. The only girls I really talk to are going to be my friends, want to be my friend, or are my friends problem. Everybody is a friend, or a useless enemy.

DJDamage talks of useless enemies, if they mean nothing to you, tell them to get out of your face, you want to keep doing what you were doing when they interrupted you with their ****y comments.

Otherwise, if you are approaching them, and they don't want you around, they will be obnoxious, just to tell you to get away and to stop bothering them!
 

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Some women are like that. If you do or say something they don't think is congruent with what they want, then they will act b1tchy towards you. The irony is that apparently it's okay if they're being rude to you, just not the other way around.
 

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