"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do some women really prefer stripping to being a wife?

MatureDJ

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I went back and read some of the comments in the article in my "creepy" men going to strip joint thread. Evidently, one of the commenters thinks that being a stripper is preferable to being a wife!

Monica Wells · Portland, Oregon
I'd pick a pole over a stove ANY day. Marriage and family is not a dream for a lot of women - it's a nightmare. We live in a country where we each can choose our own path, and suffer the consequences of that path. But to say a woman should embrace the dream of marriage and family - COMPLETE BS! Relying on a man in a marriage is just another way of stripping - if it isn't the dream you want.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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That's nothing new. Through the ages, there have been women who have preferred being a prostitute to being a wife.

It's better that such women be honest about such things and stay away from even trying to contend for a wife/mom role, rather than becoming a wife/mom and do a horrible job.

Leave it to anti-family liberal feminists to think that marriage means "relying on a man," rather than view it as building something.
 

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He's hit it on the head. Too many people look at marriage as an obligation. If you don't like it then don't do it. As for liking stripping more ok that's fine but don't complain about when you do it. Nobody put a gun to your head and guess what I don't see a huge demand for male strip joints.
 

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Saying that stripping is better than marriage is like saying that screwing *****s is better then screwing your wife... wait
 

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MatureDJ said:
I one of the commenters thinks that being a stripper is preferable to being a wife!
MatureDJ,


Recognize THIS:

Whenever a woman PROUDLY boasts that she'd rather be stripper than be a wife, what she's really saying is that she doesn't see ANY value in forming any kind of LASTING, meaningful bond with a man.

In addition to that, the more unsettling, UNDERLYING message she's communicating is that her objective in regards to men is to go on an "Extraction Mission" ONLY. And what she's out to extract, of course, is MONEY.

And currently, for the more selfish and emotionally unavailable women in our society, to tease guys (by being a stripper) WITHOUT having to be "bothered" with actually having to also follow through and please those guys (by being a wife)-----------is the strategy of choice for "Mercenary Chicks".

I advise guys to remember that shyt next time they GLADLY rush out to throw all their hard-earned money at the random "dancers" they drool over at their local strip clubs.

Everyone reading this Intel should feel free to stop for a moment and ponder what I've just said. I believe there are some very DIRECT correlations that can be drawn in relation to the subject matter of that OTHER stripper thread you referenced a little earlier.


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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I know of one.

She is the definition of human trash.
 

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I bet my ass they would prefer even more to be actresses.

The reason is not because of the bigger amount of money they can get if they become famous but the amount of attention.

While the majority of men just want to ensure a territory (both physical like a home or a woman for themselves and abstract like a job position) and build something (a family or a business), most of the girls are obsessed about get attention with the extreme of that being the attention wh0res who always want to be the center of everything.

Alness is right in saying that marriage should be limited to women who want to "build a family" instead of ensure an economical gain or relying on a man, it would be even better if the government would be forbidden to regulate whats between a man and a woman with double standard laws.
 

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sadly in their heart of hearts many women feel this way...the real problem for men is when they feel this way AFTER they get married.

This is the irony, women truly feel a marriage will be a burden to THEM when they are the ones who stand to GAIN the most. Sadly many men are only too happy to parrot these beliefs in the hope of scoring some pvzzy
 

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What is she, 22? Her tune won't be that way when she's 40.
 
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