"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do Not Jack Off!

young_gun

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To me, it doesn't really matter how much testosterone I have in my system. For all I fvcking know, I could have higher testosterone levels than the biggest body builder in the world after I wank it.

I wanked it last night and I still feel like complete @ss. I'm going to hang out with some chick right now that I know I could fvck, but I just don't feel like doing anything with her. We're going to watch a movie, and then I'm probably just gonna go home. WOW. WHAT A PU$$Y I FEEL LIKE.

When I haven't wanked it for at least 3-4 days, I feel invincible. I feel like everything that comes out of my mouth is straight money, I have confidence like no other, and I feel like I can do anything. Right now it's about the exact opposite.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PumpingIron13

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To be honest after reading this i cut back for the hell of it and it has acutally made my game a little better, i actually think it goes pretty deep, like when u look at porn and stuff it makes it harder to talk to girls if u already have no game cuz the only experience u have is watching them get nailed on porno, when a girl is almost an object to you then how could u expect yoursself to communicate with her, its a psychological block, at least i think so.
 
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