"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do nice guys always finish last?

zekko

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Aaron B said:
if a woman refers to a man as a nice guy its the kiss of death and she doesn't see him as a man with sexual power. period.
Totally disagree.

I find when women refer to another guy as a "nice guy" it's usually a good thing. As in: "He's a nice guy". I have seen girls say this about countless guys they were into sexually. "You should meet my new boyfriend, he's such a nice guy"(dreamy eyed).

But if they say it TO a guy, as in "You're a nice guy", it's usually in the "You're a nice guy, but..." sense. I guess they think saying that is going to make you feel better. So the context is important.

Now if they say a guy is "Too nice", that's the kiss of death for sure.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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