jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
Can having a focus on becoming better in relationships, and with people, rather than dominating the world and claiming your place, make you fail as a man?
In the sense that in today's world there is all the emphasis on making men improve from an emotional and relational point of view, but less on that of showing strength and taking things with arrogance, prepotent and dominance.
We see it in nature, a lion wins with another lion physically or if it eats it. We humans have evolved to "sophisticate" the fight through language, but it's still the same thing. Winning and prevailing over others. So is being good and setting boundaries, and respecting them, just making us weak?
Good people, but weak.
This is when you understand that women were not looking for a man who was good at relationships but rather one who was dominant and domineering over others. Women will do the emotional work to make him better for it. What's the point of learning us as men to do that?
As men we should learn how to dominate, win, without using that raw strenght of a lion.
In the sense that in today's world there is all the emphasis on making men improve from an emotional and relational point of view, but less on that of showing strength and taking things with arrogance, prepotent and dominance.
We see it in nature, a lion wins with another lion physically or if it eats it. We humans have evolved to "sophisticate" the fight through language, but it's still the same thing. Winning and prevailing over others. So is being good and setting boundaries, and respecting them, just making us weak?
Good people, but weak.
This is when you understand that women were not looking for a man who was good at relationships but rather one who was dominant and domineering over others. Women will do the emotional work to make him better for it. What's the point of learning us as men to do that?
As men we should learn how to dominate, win, without using that raw strenght of a lion.