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Do I call back?

iluvfemales

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I've been hanging out with this girl for the last 3 weeks every weekend. Things seem to be going well since she would call me every now and then to see if I wanted to come out. Yesterday I left a message on her phone to see if she wanted to come to the club with me. I never heard back from her. Should I call her up to see if everything is ok or just pretend nothing happened and call her next weekend?
 

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DJ4Real

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Don't call her "to see if everything is ok". Rather, call her and say something ****y and funny about how slow she is to get a message. You could say something "Well, you one of kind! only checking your messages once a year."
 

milkman

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Originally posted by DJ4Real
Don't call her "to see if everything is ok". Rather, call her and say something ****y and funny about how slow she is to get a message. You could say something "Well, you one of kind! only checking your messages once a year."
Yes, if you want to talk with her/see her you have to call her or visit her, you are the man.

If it is the first time she doesn´t answer, I personally think there is no need to make a deal out of it.

I would say nothing but instead make sure to make a move. Sounds a bit like so far you are not escalting even if you have seen her for some time.

So my advise would be to be nice with her not having answered this time but make sure to make a move (e.g. heavy makeout at your/her house and try to... the rest you know dude). ;)
 
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