"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do girls prefer a good pounding or emotional sex

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I dont get emotional

Im not into the cuddling, kissing so much

Would you say girls prefer tha cuddling a bit slow sex, lots kissing etc..

Rather than just going really fast and hard etc..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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donnyjondeppjuando said:
I dont get emotional

Im not into the cuddling, kissing so much

Would you say girls prefer tha cuddling a bit slow sex, lots kissing etc..

Rather than just going really fast and hard etc..
Depends on the context. For a one night stand or f&ck buddy type thing, she wants to get reamed hard. No cuddly, kissy, romantic stuff is recommended.

In a relationship, it's probably a mix. Sometimes she wants to get railed. Other times she wants to be made love to.
 

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Personally, I do enjoy a good pounding, but that is just me (BTW if you couldn't tell, I'm a female). However I'm not exactly sleeping around just to get some good casual and nameless sex. I like to cuddle and have some sensual slow sex, but it ALL boils down to feeling better.

I think it really depends what kind of girl you get. Some like to pound hard all the time, and some like to cuddle all the time, but I would imagine that for those really slutty ones, they prefer a good pounding…

Cuddling and slow sex has a different kind of good feeling. If you are planning to have a relationship, variety is the spice of life, so y always pound? That satisfy the animal primal side, but the cuddling/slow sex satisfy the higher emotional side (like attachment?)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dzodiac said:
Personally, I do enjoy a good pounding, but that is just me (BTW if you couldn't tell, I'm a female). However I'm not exactly sleeping around just to get some good casual and nameless sex. I like to cuddle and have some sensual slow sex, but it ALL boils down to feeling better.

I think it really depends what kind of girl you get. Some like to pound hard all the time, and some like to cuddle all the time, but I would imagine that for those really slutty ones, they prefer a good pounding…

Cuddling and slow sex has a different kind of good feeling. If you are planning to have a relationship, variety is the spice of life, so y always pound? That satisfy the animal primal side, but the cuddling/slow sex satisfy the higher emotional side (like attachment?)

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The Gender Genie thinks the author of this passage is: male!
 

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Depends on the girl. Im currently spinning one of each it gets confusing.
 
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