"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do girls decide when a relationship moves forward or backwards

jigga23

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In general no matter the situation do girls decide when things happen. Lets say if you are frineds for a couple of months do they have to initiate the next step. Or you break up do they initiate getting back together or do you. I know a guy shouldnt stand for bs but they cant be pushy right?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If you've done it correctly, she'd have fallen for you and is just itching to attack you with passion.

What did I do. I decided how the relationship should go, indirectly though developing interest.

Always a side motive to everything.
 

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Whoever has the upper hand in a relationship generally controls the direction of a relationship. You gain the upper hand with the things taught in the DJ Bible (confidence, challenge, social proof, etc). AFCs generally do not have the upper hand in a relationship, so the female controls it.
 
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