"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do any of you just LOVE the game?

Alphathree

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I haven't kissed a girl in about two months. (I have turned down and not explored many obvious opportunities because I've become very picky.)

It's funny, my habit as of the past few months has been to just absolutely LOVE the game. I get a mental high off knowing hot girls are attracted to me, and then I blow them off.

Is this healthy? Not sure. It's great practice though. =)

I came home tonight realizing that I really do love playing the game. I think I like it just as much as getting laid=)

Obviously I am looking for a real relationship with a great woman, but I have a lot of patience, and I'm not just screwing random women in the mean time. Instead, I'm just improving my skill level and having fun.

I LOVE the GAME. (I especially love winning it.)

I love it when a girl who knew me from my AFC days give me this 'look' one day that says "I just realized I'm attracted to you, and this fascinates me."

I love it when a girl lights up when I approach her.

I love it when every guy in the room is after HBx, and HBx decides to come to me instead because I'm not paying any attention to her.

I'll stop wallowing in my love of the game now.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So pimp its scary

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Yes, but for different reasons then you mention.
 

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I love it. Constantly I'm thinking of openers and routines and **** like that to use.

I love where a girl acts completely uninterested, and with just a few words you can make her head spin on her shoulders.

:)
 

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I love it when i ecjaculate in his ass

Opps i mean i mean ahhh SH*T

I mean

I love it when i ejaculate in her eyes

Ninja out
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It's great being a Don Juan.
 

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I find it to be fun (for the time being) Its always a blast to play a bunch of girls against each other and make them fight for you as well as get all wet in the pants when u dont answer their phone calls because your "busy".

Although, its fun now ... It gets old after a while in life and I think the rewards are a lot better once u find a gal who really is into you and accepts you for you and quits playing a bunch of games.
 

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You have to love the game, because you're not going to be willing to play it at all, much less well, if you don't.

Same goes for everything else you'll do in your life; you have to love it if you want to do it.
 

So pimp its scary

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I love the feeling when I start talking to a woman, sometimes even before I start talking where I know that it's ON.
 

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I LOVE THE GAME...

well if you ever want to become a winner in the game then you have to love it...

if you dont love the game then you wont play it and if you dont play it then you wont get an exotic woman with long hair, beautiful eyes that you could get hopelessly lost in, slender, curved body, sexual radience that causes you to become charged in seconds and... oh dear... the possabilitys are infanate... i love the challenge.. the thought of a beautiful woman waiting for me to seduce her.. begging me... I LOVE IT
who does`nt...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I love it too!!!

There's nothing better then when you realize that you've improved yourself into someone you never could have imagined before.

You become your personal hero, having the best day of your life, and still know that you have a lot to improve. Still knowing that today will become EVEN BETTER.

Of course we all have our ups and downs, and sometimes im also thinking "damn, I wish it was like last weekend at that party, I was really kicking ass!" - But then you change your attitude and mindset back to normal, and understand that you're only improving, and than good things will keep happening - EVERY DAY UNTIL YOU DIE!

Even rejection is funny. It's funny to get rejected, but best thing of all - rejecting! Just like you said.

Another thing, the best thing of all, is - as you say - when other people that you knew before tell you that you've changed. As my friend did a couple of weeks ago.

"Damn man, I don't know what it is, but before, it took you like 3 years to get a girl interested in you..."

"... I don't know what happened, but suddenly you get it after flirting with them for 3 months..."

"... And then, you got down to 3 weeks, 3 days, three hours and f-uck... now you got game after 3 minutes... it's crazy!"

Okay I know it sounds like bragging, but you can't hold it back when someone says a thing like that.

I LOVE THE GAME!
 

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I love it when I say something extremely ****y and she's letting me get away with it.
 

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I love it too.

I love the power it gives me.

The other day at work I told a girl (with a boyfriend, interestingly enough) to bend over so I could see if she had a nice arse and she obliged. Right infront of a guy whos been after her for months, how funny. Me pimp, you AFC, to put it in caveman terms.

Yes, got to love the game.

My attitude:

I'm better than you, and I know it.
 

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'I'm better than you, and I know it.'

If you were better than us, you would'nt need to say it.

But seen as I've seen proof how good some of the guy's on here are (including myself) we don't really care.

:down:
 

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I love how all those hours spent reading DJ material, countless of discussion with mates, memorising sections of the DJ Bible pay off in the field.

Its like you're not really aware of it at the time. But because the right mindset is there, everything just falls into place.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I on the other hand hate the game.
 

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Don't overgame yourselves, guys. I got so hyped up in obsessively studying this stuff that I became a social robot from it, and when I did get in scoring position I was limp because I was too focused on what to say or do next. Watch out!
 

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hell yeah! I really do get a rush from approaching, gaming, seeing their reaction, etc.

Its not to win or lose, but for the love of the game.
 

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I don't like the game. I spend my days studying (stress), working (power plays), and doing freelance work (more power plays and stress).

If someone offered me an unlimited supply of nice, hot women on a platter I would gladly take it. I date to relieve stress, not to gain more.
 
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