"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJ's in Manhattan

snowdog

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I'm going to Manhattan for a week with my family in a couple of months. I have planned that I want to go out at least one night.

I know a bunch of people are reading my journal. Any of you wanna meet up? It would be cool to actually meet someone from this site
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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daygameguy

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Aren't you planning this a little too early? lol
 

daygameguy

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There are a lot of guys out here in NY who are regular posters. You can try the wing man forum.

I live in Long Island btw.. so I might join you but it's still quite far.. can't promise anything.

Let me know when you get here.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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snowdog

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Haha cool man. Will do. I want to do some bar hopping and just get a little glimpse of the night life. Not really that interested in clubs. I have the idea that New York is ridicilously expensive.
 
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