"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DJing Pook-Style Complete

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I copy/pasted this came: The page you are trying to access has either been moved or deleted, or has an invalid link.
 

Al Moh.

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Oh, didn't see that, it's because the board shortend the link. Alright, just click on the link and when you get the error page go into the adress text box and press enter.
 

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Hey i want to say thank you for doing this, Your work is much appreciated.
 

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Thank you Al moh. :) nice job:D

u get a heart from me <3
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I can't seem to find it...Clicked the link...went back into the address bar and hit enter and still nothing.
 

Al Moh.

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That's strange. What browser are you using? I use firefox and everything is working fine...
 

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Hey man, you've come a long way from when you first started posting here. I have read couple of parts of this collection although I plan to read the whole compilation this week. Good job in adding thoughts of your own to pook material.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Smack

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Yeah the thing is the link doesn't work.
 

Jon55

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Worked fine for me (using Safari).

Thanks again Al Moh!
 

The Dreamer

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You summed up everything brilliantly. Everything one has to know about how to lead a life to the fullest is in there.

Worth all the wealth on Earth.

Live.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Al Moh.

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This is my approach to DJism. I used all those pook quotes because it's his school of thought that my approach is mainly based on. So this consists of his quotes and my interpretations, additions and sometimes disagreements.

For further reference read the indroduction of this little e-book.
 
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