DJ Woman Wannabe

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Master Don Juan

May 13, 2005

So the girlz want it all now-a-days huh? I have it all :0, but no women are beatin my door down right now. I guess that explains why mostly women that are married or in relationships show interest in me. They're more worth their salt as they are commital, and look for the same.

Girlz and even guys that sleep around all the time are losers .. it's all superficial bull shyte.

For good concise dating and relationship advice
Ask Sagan the Artificial Intelligence Dating Consultant (pops up in separate browser window)

These are just some of the sample questions you can ask. You can also talk in free-form.

How do i flirt? Should i buy her a drink? How do i advance things physically?
How do i ask her out? Do i approach or not? What are some signs of interest?
Should i compliment her? How do i handle rejection? What about party girls?
Tell me about the friends zone. Should i tell her how i feel? What is good body language?
I'm in a slump. Should i be ****y and funny? What is the difference between neediness and clinglyness.
Should i be persistant? How do i be a mystery? Where do i meet girls?
She is long distance. Should i let her do most of the talking? Is she playing hard to get?
She says one thing but does another. How do i keep friends with benefits?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.