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Don Juan
Sector II – In the field
Now you are the prize (better, you have a Life) you should speak laugh to all woman: I’M REALLY UNAVAILABLE!!!, because on Monday to Wednesday I must study to LLM classes, lose X pounds at the gym, organize my home and my finances, so my time is gold and short and im really don’t have time to just talk without any objective with a girl I’m leaving about 1 month!!! I’m a man, a creature of action and results, so my career I’m working hard about 7 years is most important:
1. You call her only to set up dates, you should talk a little bit, but not more 30 minutes (for the first time. After the first date you talk no more than 20 minutes). You set up dates on your free time only (select you free days in the week), and she has to know about that, no exception will be made on the beginning;
2. Any way you will attend or make call phones at your work (at the beginning), you are a busy man!
3. Receiving call phone: Electronic Secretary at the beginning, you return the call to set up a date.
4. Receiving a dating invite: Respect your schedule, if you are not free say: “Thanks for the invite, but I’ll be doing X at this day, but I would like to spend some time with you on Joe’s place at Y day”
5. Between calls you’ll respect the following: (i) You’ll see her only one time per week on your free days; (ii) You call her after 48 hours from the first date to say “Hey I spent a good time with you, let’s go to the Joe’s place on next Saturday?” if she say no without an explanation you “Next” her; (iii) After another dates you call her after 72 hours to set up a new date; (iv) If she not answer your call, leave a message, and if she not return you made a new try in another week, if she insist in not answer the call you “Next” her (don’t leave a message in this case).
When you all of that procedures, you:
(i) Be a challenge, because you don’t give her attention, she’ll start to asking for herself why you dan’t call to her, or if you like she or not. Consequently, you are the prize (better, a real prize); and
(ii) Learn to go slow down with the woman, be patient and protect your heart, this is a good blocking for woman who wants to play games, or don’t really like you. You have to realize many women just date to get fun;
Remember, all of this has to be real, not a lie. You must relax some rules and make some concessions if you like she, if she’s a LTR material and shows interesting (call you, invite you to dates, do things you like, help you pay the bill)
Some defense moves:
This the real word, so, despite you do all right or have much to offer you’ll find in your journey all kind of girls who just wanna sex, use your money, attention *****s, girls isn’t LTR material, etc. You have to put a shield in this one under the risk of start a LTR or get involved with the wrong woman and get hurt. So there are the procedures to protect you and make life work for you:
(i) M249 Mode – This is the gun switch mode, you take your machinegun and shot for all girls (in dance clubs, relationship sites, etc.). You have to find a system or a way you should activate your M249 and get a lot of woman to date. By this way you’ll have options and a system, and this is gold. M249 Mode Advantages: (i) If things go bad with a girls you have another options, this a shield for your heart when you realize she’s not interested; (ii) You have options (power) to select witch girls you wanna leave, make sex, has a LTR, etc. (Example, is Wednesday and you wanna leave on Thursday, call for mrs. X invite to a date, she say no, well, you can call to mrs. Y, Z or C, you have many options) ; (iii) You stay cool because you know you have s system will provide lots of woman when you want. You turn off your M249 when you find a girls you like, is a LTR material and she ask you exclusivity (and dump another girls);
(ii) Watch her moves between calls and dates: This is the best way to measure here reciprocity. If you are doing all alone (call, invite date, etc.) and between calls and dates she’s doing (not speak) nothing – something is wrong, you must evaluate and rank she;
(iii) Rank the girls! – You know a girl, she’s cute, sexy, but is a party girl, but you still wanna a LTR with her? Why? Are you crazy man? The DJ want the best and no less, everybody knows a party girl is not a good material for a LTR, so you need to rank she and take the necessary actions to protect you and make this work: You should “Next” her or put she in the STR category and reduce the dates (4 in a month to 2 or 1 – you still get fun but less involved), there’s no problem because the M249 mode is on, and you are talking to 4 or 5 girls at the same time, so is question of time a better girl will be find; and
(iv) Know in general terms the girl you would like to be in a LTR, you set up the qualifications and see along the dates if she’s in the qualifications, for this, pay f****** attention in what she’s saying and forgot her pretty face for a while.
Sector III – Deal with the Average Frustrated Chump (“AFC”) inside you not doing:
- Asking if she really liked / liking you (walking on eggshells);
- Blind from real interesting signals from she;
- Try to conquer her making compliments;
- Try to build romantic situations to conquer her;
- Doing often things she likes and you don’t like or don’t work for you;
- Be her annalist;
- Fix her problems;
- Let her often going on with boring conversations;
- Talk on the phone often and many hours;
- Try to fix a problem (or building her attention) in the relationship with e-mails, letters, calls, flowers, poetry;
- Ask her the ways to conquer her;
- Say you’ll be exclusive (first);
- Ask her if she likes you;
- Always available;
- Always doing all, and she nothing, and act and think in a LTR material or get involved;
- Think too much if she like’s you or not, why she didn’t answered the phone, if she would like to go in a LTR with you, the best way is doing and her answers are in the external (accept date, answer the phone, call you, invite you a date, doing things to you);
- Make a move but get analyzing situation;
- Go slow down and patient;
- Use confidence persistence;
- Don’t be paralyzed by what she speak;
- Lead the way or take the charge;
- Be a man (Fix the problems, take passion for your like, scared about your desires) – Read Pook article “Be a Man”;
- Let your true nature going on (you should be romantic, affectionless, funny but not to conquer her but if you want to do); and
- Don’t get fun.
Now you are the prize (better, you have a Life) you should speak laugh to all woman: I’M REALLY UNAVAILABLE!!!, because on Monday to Wednesday I must study to LLM classes, lose X pounds at the gym, organize my home and my finances, so my time is gold and short and im really don’t have time to just talk without any objective with a girl I’m leaving about 1 month!!! I’m a man, a creature of action and results, so my career I’m working hard about 7 years is most important:
1. You call her only to set up dates, you should talk a little bit, but not more 30 minutes (for the first time. After the first date you talk no more than 20 minutes). You set up dates on your free time only (select you free days in the week), and she has to know about that, no exception will be made on the beginning;
2. Any way you will attend or make call phones at your work (at the beginning), you are a busy man!
3. Receiving call phone: Electronic Secretary at the beginning, you return the call to set up a date.
4. Receiving a dating invite: Respect your schedule, if you are not free say: “Thanks for the invite, but I’ll be doing X at this day, but I would like to spend some time with you on Joe’s place at Y day”
5. Between calls you’ll respect the following: (i) You’ll see her only one time per week on your free days; (ii) You call her after 48 hours from the first date to say “Hey I spent a good time with you, let’s go to the Joe’s place on next Saturday?” if she say no without an explanation you “Next” her; (iii) After another dates you call her after 72 hours to set up a new date; (iv) If she not answer your call, leave a message, and if she not return you made a new try in another week, if she insist in not answer the call you “Next” her (don’t leave a message in this case).
When you all of that procedures, you:
(i) Be a challenge, because you don’t give her attention, she’ll start to asking for herself why you dan’t call to her, or if you like she or not. Consequently, you are the prize (better, a real prize); and
(ii) Learn to go slow down with the woman, be patient and protect your heart, this is a good blocking for woman who wants to play games, or don’t really like you. You have to realize many women just date to get fun;
Remember, all of this has to be real, not a lie. You must relax some rules and make some concessions if you like she, if she’s a LTR material and shows interesting (call you, invite you to dates, do things you like, help you pay the bill)
Some defense moves:
This the real word, so, despite you do all right or have much to offer you’ll find in your journey all kind of girls who just wanna sex, use your money, attention *****s, girls isn’t LTR material, etc. You have to put a shield in this one under the risk of start a LTR or get involved with the wrong woman and get hurt. So there are the procedures to protect you and make life work for you:
(i) M249 Mode – This is the gun switch mode, you take your machinegun and shot for all girls (in dance clubs, relationship sites, etc.). You have to find a system or a way you should activate your M249 and get a lot of woman to date. By this way you’ll have options and a system, and this is gold. M249 Mode Advantages: (i) If things go bad with a girls you have another options, this a shield for your heart when you realize she’s not interested; (ii) You have options (power) to select witch girls you wanna leave, make sex, has a LTR, etc. (Example, is Wednesday and you wanna leave on Thursday, call for mrs. X invite to a date, she say no, well, you can call to mrs. Y, Z or C, you have many options) ; (iii) You stay cool because you know you have s system will provide lots of woman when you want. You turn off your M249 when you find a girls you like, is a LTR material and she ask you exclusivity (and dump another girls);
(ii) Watch her moves between calls and dates: This is the best way to measure here reciprocity. If you are doing all alone (call, invite date, etc.) and between calls and dates she’s doing (not speak) nothing – something is wrong, you must evaluate and rank she;
(iii) Rank the girls! – You know a girl, she’s cute, sexy, but is a party girl, but you still wanna a LTR with her? Why? Are you crazy man? The DJ want the best and no less, everybody knows a party girl is not a good material for a LTR, so you need to rank she and take the necessary actions to protect you and make this work: You should “Next” her or put she in the STR category and reduce the dates (4 in a month to 2 or 1 – you still get fun but less involved), there’s no problem because the M249 mode is on, and you are talking to 4 or 5 girls at the same time, so is question of time a better girl will be find; and
(iv) Know in general terms the girl you would like to be in a LTR, you set up the qualifications and see along the dates if she’s in the qualifications, for this, pay f****** attention in what she’s saying and forgot her pretty face for a while.
Sector III – Deal with the Average Frustrated Chump (“AFC”) inside you not doing:
- Asking if she really liked / liking you (walking on eggshells);
- Blind from real interesting signals from she;
- Try to conquer her making compliments;
- Try to build romantic situations to conquer her;
- Doing often things she likes and you don’t like or don’t work for you;
- Be her annalist;
- Fix her problems;
- Let her often going on with boring conversations;
- Talk on the phone often and many hours;
- Try to fix a problem (or building her attention) in the relationship with e-mails, letters, calls, flowers, poetry;
- Ask her the ways to conquer her;
- Say you’ll be exclusive (first);
- Ask her if she likes you;
- Always available;
- Always doing all, and she nothing, and act and think in a LTR material or get involved;
- Think too much if she like’s you or not, why she didn’t answered the phone, if she would like to go in a LTR with you, the best way is doing and her answers are in the external (accept date, answer the phone, call you, invite you a date, doing things to you);
- Make a move but get analyzing situation;
- Go slow down and patient;
- Use confidence persistence;
- Don’t be paralyzed by what she speak;
- Lead the way or take the charge;
- Be a man (Fix the problems, take passion for your like, scared about your desires) – Read Pook article “Be a Man”;
- Let your true nature going on (you should be romantic, affectionless, funny but not to conquer her but if you want to do); and
- Don’t get fun.