"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJ O.K. But Fear of Physical Sucess due to Impotency

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I am age 50. Much to my surprise, I found that I am successful with the ladies. The problem is when they say yes, then I start to fall apart because I am impotent. My younger years where kind of cool, but I find all kinds of reasons not to go through with the date because of this. Kind of Dumb? You finally get it, then you can't do it. Any suggestions, comments, or feedback? By the way, I am overweight, so I read somewhere that I can start by getting in shape, and see if that improves my success. Others?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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azanon

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I think you need the help of a urologist more than Sosuave.
 

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BlueStarxe said:
I am age 50. Much to my surprise, I found that I am successful with the ladies. The problem is when they say yes, then I start to fall apart because I am impotent. My younger years where kind of cool, but I find all kinds of reasons not to go through with the date because of this. Kind of Dumb? You finally get it, then you can't do it. Any suggestions, comments, or feedback? By the way, I am overweight, so I read somewhere that I can start by getting in shape, and see if that improves my success. Others?
yeah, exercize will help, even if you don't get in shape. there's also viagra. could talk to your doc about the situation too, see what he says. good luck.
 

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Exercise is one of the best long term options. It will get your blood flowing again all over your body. Just do it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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skip2mylou781 said:
how is posting this on sosuave gonna help u?

get some viagra and thats that, EVERYONE knows thats the solution to being impotent

what a stupid stupid question for a GROWN man who is 50 years old to ask.

Then again mr. 1 post, you might be a troll
Hey yo, look at Mr Paranoid. Everyone here...is a troll haha.

What a loser. Apparently this chico is a doctor too. Survey says...you suck.
 

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azanon said:
I think you need the help of a urologist more than Sosuave.
That's a good idea. a Urologist. I never would have thought of it. Thank You.
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
how is posting this on sosuave gonna help u?

get some viagra and thats that, EVERYONE knows thats the solution to being impotent

what a stupid stupid question for a GROWN man who is 50 years old to ask.

Then again mr. 1 post, you might be a troll
Posting on Sosuave is going to help me because I am getting a second opinion. That's the point of a Forum.

As far as viagra goes I was concerned about the side effects. I hear it only works temporarily, and should not be used extendedly. I don't know if that is true, but thanks for reminding me. I have to talk to my doctor.

I don't see why it is a stupid question. This problem is common among man since the beginning of time. I would think you would want to know about it too even if you may not have the problem. I didn't when I was younger.

1 post. A troll. No. Just started. Dumb conculsion yours.
 

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MacAvoy said:
Exercise is one of the best long term options. It will get your blood flowing again all over your body. Just do it.
Good idea. Thank You. Long Term is the key. Helps me not to be too ambitious.
 

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edmond said:
You have a problem with your mind, not your d*ck.
Hmm. You seem to have a limited vocabulary. But in all fairness I will conceed maybe my mind may still be a factor. 1/2 mind. 1/2 body. Instead of 100% body.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I agree with suggestions others have made regarding your situation. Try consulting your doc for medication.
 
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