“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dj Bootcamp: Week 5

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Hm half way through guys, i hope some of u guys still continue, like i said this week consists of 2 weeks so plenty of time to get these tasks done and week 4 if you need to. This is where u will start getting results and all those rejections and bad times will all pay off. Make sure to push urself this week though, because if u don't u will not make it, some of u have been given a second chance, but if u do the same thing last week u will not get through. I think einstein said this "insanity is doing the exact same thing over and over again and expecting different results".

Well guys for this week i want u to just do some new stuff like take a different route home, go to a different area to do something, go to a club u never been before, Take up a class of a new skill, go somewhere and do a new sport or a sport u have not done in ages. All these things will help u meet new people. What i have been noticing lately is i am meeting the exact same people over and over. Whats the fun in doing something the same time all the time? it is boring, life is about new things. So when u r at all these new places meet new people and get some numbers, in week 4 u should learn that asking for a number isn't has hard has it looks. It would be even easier if u made a great connection with the person, which i am sure u will do with all these new people.

Exercise 1
Call up the girls whom we have acquired their phone numbers during lesson four and set-up a nonweekend first date. This could be to a coffee shop, or an action date, but definitely not the traditional movie-and-dinner. Take a look at the Reading Material above for ideas.

Exercise 2
Use the skills we have learned up to this point, and those contained within the Reading Material above, to increase the girl's interest level.

Interest level: Doc Love has a system and one of the major parts of this system is the concept of “Interest Level”. Basically, a girl must have 50% or more to be romantically interested in you, and if it goes below 50%, then it is impossible to become her romantic interest [again]. This is called “LJBF”.
Let’s just be friends: Or LJBF, is a line a girl uses on you to try to “Let you down nicely”. Truth is, this is a pathetic thing to hear. If you hear it, move on to a next potential girl. Its rare to get anywhere with a “Friend”, but at the same time, friends can be assets to helping you attain others.

Exercise 3
Go back into the field and get more phone numbers if we have not yet acquired ten phone numbers. Field: The arena from which you work. Could be a shopping mall, a park, general crowded area, clubs, pubs, university campuses etc. When you’re in the field, you should feel as though you are “On”.

Special exercise notes
This lesson does not have to be completed by this time next week. You will have fourteen days (two weeks) to complete it (MotU suggested one and a half weeks, but that would cause an imbalance with the day names – Nick). So with two weeks, you have just the right amount of time to go get some
numbers if you don't have enough (or any), wait 4-7 days to call and set up the date, and to finally go out on some dates.
Upon completion of, or throughout, this exercise, come back and report on one or more of your dates and first phone call conversations – use the response thread.

All right guys, we're half way through with the Boot Camp. You guys who have stuck to it this past month are doing fantastic. Now we get to start enjoy what we've worked hard to establish.
So go out there, and have a blast!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ill be right there with ya man i just finished last week. definately looking forward for whats to come -> this is unchartered territory for me
 

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The DJ bank

This will have the Dj bootcamp in it and also will be your sources of information that i feel will be quite useful along with the bootcamp. I will update this every week with new articles and stuff. This week i am going to add some specific journals to the bank, i feel this would be the most helpful journals to read for this week. They will give u ideas on what to talk about and also some things u can do to make this a bit more fun.

DJ Bootcamp - This will tell you the week's tasks and have a number of articles informing you on how to get through the task as well as building your dj arsenal to get you through this.

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.pdf
or word Version:
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.doc

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This stuff has motivated me greatly and it would of been a lot more harder to go to the next level with out it. I hope you find it as useful has it has been for me.

Weapons of mass seduction - Senor fingers - This is my personal favourite article of this website, the guy will totally change your thinking, his funny has hell and will tell you pretty much every single thing on how to approach a girl.

15 lessons - Pook - One of his greatest pieces and very true and inspirational, u can't help to approach after you read this.

"Keys to the VIP" < search on youtube- reading is not enough my friends, u actually got see these things to believe them. I thought their were so many boundarys in approaches and things i couldn't do. I watched these guys getting girls numbers instantly from screwed up openers to boyfriend being right next to her and i had whole new perspective on approaching and just exactlly what i could do.

Waldens Journal - First person to complete the bootcamp, if you are having problems see how walden overcame the obstacle it may help you.

Approach Journals: i learnt a lot from approach journals and was able to take bits and pieces i liked of a lot of journals to create my own style. The things you see some guys on here do are unbelievable and u will have whole new expectations. They will also help you with what to say and what to do at times, seeing we have all been through the same thing more or less, so u can watch how other people got through them and also learn some of there techniques that they use and see what works for you.

Traps of life: One of the most truest and motivating articles i have read, this is actually in the dj bible, but i didn't want to give you the link and then let you search recklessly for the pages so i found website that has it as well.

Jon's Field Report Log: This guy i thought would be necessairy to put in the camp because the things u would think r impossible to do out on the street in a cold approach he will do. It will open ur eyes and one of the best journals on here.

Snow Plowmans Journal - This guy has done hell lot of approaches, This is actually the ONLY journal i was not able to completly read because he has done so much and there is a huge amount of information on how to go about your approach with a million different scenarios and it will give you a lot of ideas and show you how easy this can be.

Post your field experimentation ideas here, and I'll do them - Incog - This guy has done a lot of crazy **** and i have tried some of the things he has done and well it has gotten good results. This is just to have fun with so you can add some Ancient amazon chick war storys under ur belt lol. The success rate on this are very good in my opinion for obvious reasons because the approach was not aimed for the chick to try and please her, but rather to please urself. Have FUN.

Let yourself fail - Pook - Greatly explained by pook on how it is a win win situation, whilst standing there doing nothing is the only way u can lose. This helped me a bit and i feel it could help you for whats left of week 4.

Rejection Collection - 2ndTour - Field experiment of 2nd tour and his rejection list and after u notice that his success increased the more and more he got rejected. Some funny rejections on here that made my laugh my head off when i first read it. But i guess if u think about it ur biggest **** ups r ur best storys
 

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I think same lessons will apply for this week if u guys make it to the next i will put some new material up, but the dj bootcamp link i think has this week covered pretty much.

For the bootcamp i got to get my plates to 10 and i got a date i have somewhat been working on it but not much progress really to b honest. From today though i want to make a change.
 

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alright man sounds good i have quite a few updates but im going to wait for a bit to put them up because i have follow ups coming pretty soon
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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alright long night, but project making my life awesome is on way. I am going bed now and i will put report on later, but i am going to use previous week 6 thread which everyone bailed out on and pick it up from where we left off...and hopefully complete it this time
 
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