"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJ Bible: Read it, Read it a few times, skimmed it, haven't bothered

Naughty Ninja

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In regards to the SS DJ Bible/New version have you: Read it, read it a few times, skimmed it, or haven't bothered?

To be honest I've never read it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I skimmed it a LONG time ago, just to see what it was about. I dont think people understand - and I didnt for a long time - that not everyone is on the same wavelength. Some people literally dont know how to socialize or present themselves at all, for example, or dont understand ANY of the dating dynamics. So, whatever helps them.
 

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Read it a thousand times!!! - it keeps me cosy on the lonely winter nights when i have hand cramps from beating my bellend sh!tless to tube8 videos.

I do have some beastly forearms though:up:
 

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bradd80 said:
I have

1. read it
2. applied it
3. made mistakes applying it
4. without losing my confidence, applied it again
5. corrected my mistakes through writing up field reports and looking back at what I did right, and what I did wrong

I would suggest newbies do the same, as well as guys who have a hopeless outlook on picking up women. This strategy does work.
your new signature should be "living it". sounds fitting.
 

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I have an almost biblical knowledge of the DJ bible I read it every day and have for what.. 5-6 years. 2 aritlces a day. to the point when i am struggling with something i can generally pull up the DJ bible and just find what i need to hear which is good.

the **** works if you work it. it really does.

I'm not saying i agree with everything in the bible but i agree with.. 90-95% of it.

I've said this more than once but this site seriously changed my life. This site is the first time anyone sat me down figuratively speaking and explained to me what a man is and what a man isn't. I like to thinkt hat every once in a while i make a positive contraibution to the forum and everything I know as far as how to live life, how to be responsible, how to game women, how to roll up my sleeves and work for what the **** i want, i got from this site or was greatly influenced from this site.

If you come here and you roll up your sleeves and bust your ass and take all the suggestions that are laid out int he DJ bible you will be amazed at the transformation that will take place in your life, financially, socially, and mentally. If you come to this site and put a half ass effort into changing up your life and read a few posts and make a few comments here or there and that's it, you are going to get some half ass results in your real life, with women included.

like when i first came here the 100 rejection thing was a staple of this site. that **** did more for me than any theory, book, article, post ever probably all of them combined wtih my mindset towards women, yet you never see anyone hardly do that anymore. But if you roll up your sleeves and do the things that are suggested man you will have the world by the balls.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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