"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dividing these body parts into 4 days

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i live in the suburbs and go to university 50km away, and i work out on campus, hence, to work out every second day wouldn't be realistic, i am free monday to friday, and plan to do cardio on the weekend.

i have good chest and arms, satisfactroy back, but poor shoulders and legs. and i would like to squeeze all these bodyparts into 3-4 workdays, right now i am doing

monday--chest
tuesday--legs

wednesday--rest

thursday--back
friday--arms & shoulders

any problem with this schedule? can it be improved?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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imcorporate arms into chest and back workouts. work tricpets with chest, bicepts with back.

Working out your forearms once in a while is good too.

Its possible to incorporate shoulders into your chest and back routine, if you want.
 

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what is "arms", exactly?
 

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Abs or core exercises are also good to throw in there. Not that you need to devote a huge amount of time to them, but it's important to keep your core strong. Also don't be afraid to split up the arms (bicep and tricep for you Mrs). As hope 7 said, forearms are important aswell because they contribute to a lot of lifts such and deadlifts, bicep curls, tricep extension etc.
 
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hmm, okay, so incorporate arms into chest and back, i'll keep the shouders seperate as i have almost no anterior delts. :D

so now i have

monday-chest + triceps

tuesday-legs--squats, calf raises,etc

wednesday-rest

thursday-back + biceps

friday-shoulders

*regarding forearms, i currently finish off my arms day with 100 light wrist curls and hold 80 lb dbs in each hand until i drop. is there a better day/way for this?

thanks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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EFFORT

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theory of knowledge said:
i live in the suburbs and go to university 50km away, and i work out on campus, hence, to work out every second day wouldn't be realistic, i am free monday to friday, and plan to do cardio on the weekend.

i have good chest and arms, satisfactroy back, but poor shoulders and legs. and i would like to squeeze all these bodyparts into 3-4 workdays, right now i am doing

monday--chest
tuesday--legs

wednesday--rest

thursday--back
friday--arms & shoulders

any problem with this schedule? can it be improved?

You'd most likely make the most progress with this


Monday (Lower Body)

Main Lift- Squat, Deadlift (switch between the 2 each week)
Accessory- Row, Pullups or machine variation, Pullthrough or gluteham, barbell curl or dumbbell curl





Thursday (Upper Body)
Main Lift- Flat Bench, Incline Bench, Decline Bench (rotate these each week only do 1)
Accessory (pick one from each category)- Dumbbell Bench or hammer bench or dumbbell fly, Military press or Dumbbell Military Press or lateral raise or upright row, Skull Crusher or Tricep Push Down or reverse grip bench press
 
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