Discipline

[Rubirosa]

There's really no secret.
Every time you want to make that call....hold off
Every time you want to return that call....hold off
I think that phone discipline is still one of the most important, yet subtle Don Juan skills to have.
If you call and there's no answer, leave one message and THAT's IT......!!!!!
Do not call back again.
The ball is in her court
You have done your part
Reality hurts
How many times have you heard "I didn't have time to call you."
We all know that it's not too difficult to make a phone call....even one to say "Look, I'm super busy, but I'll call you back at such and such a time..."
Literally takes seconds.
If she's not returning calls, she's not interested (or maybe not so single).
I'll say it again...............
If she's not returning calls, she's not interested.
The more unsolicited calls you make to her, the more unattractive you become in her eyes.
Think about that the next time you got the phone in your hand.
Discipline

 

[PapiChulo]

Well, yeah. In any case you assume she is playing hard-to-get and will be seduced even if she has someone for the time being! That's where patience, cool attitude, positive vibe as well as other women-plates come into play. The end result: you build attraction and increase your pool of women, including those who are currently out of your reach for seduction to take place (boyfriend) or not willing to cheat.

 

[LuisGarcia10]

Very true.

This does not stop when you're in a relationship either, not in the early stages either. Pretty sure me relying far too much of contact via text for an assurance that everything was ok was a big factor in why I ****ed it up so quickly.

I am bad for it, so I often leave my phone when I go to work to prevent me from texting as the urge to do so can be quite strong, especially if I'm bored etc.

If you're struggling with discipline then just make it impossible for you to make a phone call or text.