Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Disappearing Act IV: Ex-Girlfriend

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Hello,

I want to ask about a few things when it comes to ghosting or just disappearing from an ex all together. It's been four months and I know she's been stalking me on social media, even tho shes in a relationship of 4 months. I've cut complete contact from her the day we broke up. Even tho I blocked her and such, she still stalks my page and also my friends when I post comments on his page.

I'm getting really tired of this and I want to disappear. I want to delete my profile. Will this have an opposite affect? I don't want her to pursue me more because I basically disappeared from her radar for good even tho I believe it would make her want me more. What do you think?

Should I go with this disappearing act? I feel like making a new profile and be lowkey for a while.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BeTheChange

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Why do you still care?

Its been four months. Stop making threads about a girl who branch swang as soon as you guys ended. That's disrespectful to yourself.

Women who are not interested in you are insignificant.
 
Firestar786

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She is going to look at what your up to.

Normal feelings I suppose

Do yourself and me a favour just f0cking forget this ***** and never contact her

She's sucking a new c0ck anyway so she's now irrelevant
 
CMNILS87

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So you've been NC for 4 months and she's had a new BF for 4 months. Did she branch swing or cheat? Regardless stop worrying about her stalking you, just block her from all accounts
 
devilkingx2

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obviously you haven't done a good enough job blocking her if she can still stalk you fam
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Desdinova

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If she's not messaging you, showing up at your hangouts, your work or your house, why are you worrying about it? If you really don't want her to know what you're up to, then block her.
 
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Desdinova said:
If she's not messaging you, showing up at your hangouts, your work or your house, why are you worrying about it? If you really don't want her to know what you're up to, then block her.
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This.

Obviously the OP likes the drama and attention. It takes 2 minutes to block someone on ANY social media site. If he didnt want her looking, she wouldnt have anything to look at.

And exactly how in the hell do you know she is looking at your social media pages unless you're still friends and she is liking your posts/pics????
 
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