"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Direct sexual comment

Master Homer

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How do you think a girl would react to a direct sexual comment, like "you got a nice ass" or something to the like? Could some verbal thing along with kino prove sexual interest to her?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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penkitten

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we lub it when you tell us you think we have great asses.
makes us smile and get excited :D
 

Don Corleone

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yeah you defenitely need to tread lightly. The situation is also very, very important. At a club when your dancing all up on some girl it might be okay. At work or school you can get slapped with sexual harrassment BS.

Just use some common sense and don't do anything stupid.








"I made her an offer she couldn't refuse"
 
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