"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Direct Game?

sandman6991

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I've been hearing a lot about Direct Game...and especially since I've learned from expierence that it is a lot easier...now...there are some things that I would like cleared up...I've had some troubles lately...but my game has most certainly improved...and right now...my skills are to the point where I should be getting numbers consistently...I'm good looking...groomed well...easy to talk to...funny...not AFC or anything...I even play football...enough about me though..I can brag about myself some other time...

My actual in-field game...has been limited...although I have good conversation and flirting skills...and I use them with girls I meet through various ways...I don't in-field approach much...due to situations at school...I'm pretty much going to HAVE to find girls outside of school now... simply because I'm that picky...

Therefore...the advice I'm asking for would seem to some as coming from a beginner...but...I am defined as a beginner only in field expierence...I have no deep seeded confidence issues...or general problems with interacting with people...

In-field approaching isn't truly my cup of tea...because of the obstacles...in high school...am I accurate in my assessment that it is a long and low odds road to meeting a girl at a place...to her becoming your girlfriend...now that could just be the way I see it...

Nevertheless...a guy's gotta do what a guy's gotta do...around my parts...there aren't many places to find the hot girls...summer is quickly coming to an end...I have one more stand...and that's tomorrow at the pool...the pool's the best place for me to approach...I'm not gonna lie...and I'm expecting results.

Routines and stuff aren't my cup of tea...I'm gonna be modest...but I should be able to do things rather easily...I'm expecting an "in-and-out" number...at least one...probably only one..since that's all the girls there that will meet my standards...

I am new to the school of direct game...which is what I will be using tomorrow...I get the basics...but not really around the edges quite yet...

My picture of direct game is this:

Me: "Hey! How's it going?"
Her: "Good!"
Me: "My name's....what's yours?"
Her: "Elizabeth"
Me: "I've gotta get going...but it'd be cool to talk to you sometime...are you single?"
Her: "Yeah"
Me: "Then write down your number or e-mail here and I'll give you a call"

That's my picture of approaching...is this off base? Would this type of thing ACTUALLY work with a girl and her friends? I'm not sure...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Akyu

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I think its probably too direct. I'm by far not a pro at this stuff but I think that the asking if shes single and then right after asking for her number is a bit too direct. She doesn't even know you and you want her number.
 

Rata Blanca

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Do not ask her if she is single.
 
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