difficult situation

[rocklobstr]

Just for starters I'm brand new to this site, sort of brand new to the whole forum situation as a whole. Anyways, there is this girl that I have hung out with a couple of times recently that I have been trying to get a good read on. She is part of this group of friends of mine( that don't hang out very often) that I used to work with. The thing is I used to like her alot, and back then I was told that she liked me. we never really hit it off though, partially because I couldn't get up the guts because she threw out alot of mixed signals, The fact that we worked together made things difficult too. I know part of her deal along with mine was well for lack of a better phrase "don't S*&# where you eat." Anyways another thing that mucked it up was the addition of a friend of mine into the equation. Those details may come later but the thing is, when I'm around her she doesn't really put me into the "friend Zone." She is a little flirty, her body language, how close she gets to me, and how she tells her friend about the funny times we had at work makes me feel like she is a little interested. I thought she was before though, and she shot me down for a guy that really used to be a friend of ours but was never really a good friend. What I am debating is trying to go for her again. I wonder if last time I got shot down because I didn't make the move. Or I wonder if I will get shot down again. It shouldn't be a big deal other than the fact that I still hang out with them without having static or feeling awkward. Not much of the situation makes sense at all to me. There is alot that I think about that just confuses me.

any ideas????

 

[rocklobstr]

yeah, good call. my biggest problem is usually just over thinking it, rather than just saying oh well and seeing what happens. There is always gonna be some kind of complications for me to think about. I just gotta get past them and stop hesitating.