Different: Socializing Bootcamp

[Alek]

Hey guys wassup. This is gonna be a different kind of a bootcamp, something i'm trying to develop for a sort of building yourself into a socializing people-magnet. See I have taken a fidentia workshop so I have pretty much gotten down-pat the cold-approaches with sexuality... I have literally found myself running down on the street after a 7-girl group and engaging them all, or getting phone numbers in 30 seconds... But you know what? I'm not happy at all. Because the core issue (which most of coming here have) is something completely different. And working on your seduction skills ain't gonna cut it. THAT my friends is your socializing skills. Your ability to have non-sexual conversations and plenty of female friends, acquintances, being able to just flirt and chat with everyone... is key to a happy life in general and as well as in the love department.

Current Challenges:
- I do not chat up or just get to know any of all the wimmins in my social circles (niches)
- I have ZERO female friends
- For some reason I have trouble smiling or showing any kind of an emotion (think clint eastwood) so I come across ballsy... yet... arrogant or even worse... intimidating.

I plan to make up the bootcamp as I go along, customize it etc... I'll just start out with the regular bootcampt for now.

 

[wowiehowie]

Originally posted by Alek


Current Challenges:
- wimmins

I'm sorry, but :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: !!! No offense, brother Alek!

 

[Alek]

To Do... This Week:

- 30 non-seductive interactions with women this week
- 50 hi's

Major Mark (in Beyond Seduction) made a good point on this when a student asked him about a challenge he was facing with having communications with women... And major mark replies something to the tune of "How are you with the non-seductive approaches? Not good eh? Ok let's give you a reasonable not too bad a goal of speaking to say... oh 20 women a day about anything at all, it could be asking for directions, the weather, when's the bus coming... her opinion on the new x... whatever... just focus on being warm and friendly" Well I didn't find 20 to be reasonable number, it would require going out of my way to seek women to chat up. So i'm making it 30 a week... Personally i'll be setting it to 2 a a day minimum. Atleast 2 have to be done each and every single day, or the whole bootcamp fails. Phone conversations with female acquintances count as well, as half an interaction.