Different clothes and attraction

[K-man]

Hi!

Do any of you have experienced how diferent styles of clothing attracts different kinds of ladies.
I'm not talking about the obvious here, like outlaw bikers, emos, Goths etc. but the difference, maybe, between casual office clothes and dark suits.

I've been dressing up lately waering a lot of charcoal, navy and pinstriped suits but not outside of the office.

Do anyone have any personal experience and anecdotes to share outside the "golddiggers go for men in suits" stories?

 

[Real Talk]

If it looks like you care about how your present yourself to the world, and you are comfortable and stuff fits well, you're good. Don't change to emo or biker or whatever for girls, because after a while you'll feel stupid. If emo or biker is your natural style and you're comfortable in it, then thats great, just heed the first sentence. Bottom line, don't force anything.

Just make it look like you take good care of the clothes you own.

 

[pinhas]

Clothes do matter, especially when you hang out in a certain place that caters to a certain group of people. I live in NYC for instance, and I would dress differently going out to a downtown bar versus an uptown lounge or gallery. The type of place you go out to often have a specific type of clientele, and it sometimes good to fit your style to your surroundings, but obviously doing it in your own personal style.

 

[zekko]

I have a friend of mine who is a CPA. He said he was out eating lunch in his suit at a food court, and a girl came up and put a piece of paper with her number on the table. So yeah, I guess wearing a suit can be attractive, it probably makes you look successful.

 

[the305]

Its not so much the cloths you buy or wear, its more of the style of dress - do you look like you know how to dress or not, is the key factor here. Stick to a niche that works for you and your comfortable with.

if you've never wore urban type of clothing, dont go out and buy some XXL shirts and fitted hats because you saw a guy dressed like that with a hot girl.

Start with the niche you are comfortable with, THEN step it up.

One of the best style of dress forums on the net is: http://www.styleforum.net/

Spend a few hours browsing around and posting - people know their stuff on there, also you can find great deals

P.S. EVERY guy should be going to the mall, asking the HOTTEST girl in the store "show me a few things you think id look good in" If you aren't doing this, do it NOW =D

 

[BigJimbo]

I have a friend of mine who is a CPA. He said he was out eating lunch in his suit at a food court, and a girl came up and put a piece of paper with her number on the table. So yeah, I guess wearing a suit can be attractive, it probably makes you look successful.

Huh? A suit in 2010 lets me know that you are trying to sell me a mobile/cell phone in the mall. It means nothing.

 

[penkitten]

ever watch how i met your mother? barney gets all the ladies and he is always telling ted it's because he "suits up".
he looks good in whatever kind of suits he wears... and the chicks are always one night stands... but that's about all i got on the topic of suits.

 

[Ease]

Dont fit your surroundings.

If you're at a dressy location, dress down.
If you're at a biker club, suit up.

This is 100% truth, guys who know this will back it up. Standing out will attract so much attention. The best example is being foreign in a different country. Im of a tan skinned origin, as soon as the girls find out they are hooked in and asking questions.

I used to think that fashion and style was important, but then i found out the importance of standing out. Your style should be different than the company you are in.

 

[J. Darko]

Dont fit your surroundings.

If you're at a dressy location, dress down.
If you're at a biker club, suit up.

This is 100% truth, guys who know this will back it up. Standing out will attract so much attention. The best example is being foreign in a different country. Im of a tan skinned origin, as soon as the girls find out they are hooked in and asking questions.

I used to think that fashion and style was important, but then i found out the importance of standing out. Your style should be different than the company you are in.

Bad advice. This is a typical case of thinking you know the subject but being eluded by the essence.

Just because you stand out, doesn't mean you're cool. It means your an attention ***** or dressed inappropriate. Standing out the good way is displaying a slight variation. If everyone wears a black suit, you wear a grey suit, or you wear a black suit but unzip a couple of buttons of your shirt, You don't wear a fcking suit at a bikers club.

Jesus Chist, and you have a lot of rep? Seems this forum is more and more populated by little boy scout virgins who stick the finger up the other virgin boy scouts asses and acting like a parrot to achieve some sort of internet status, and plotting some evil scheme to make sure new guys looking for quality advice don't get laid as well. I'm outta here.

 

[Ease]

Dressing different is an easy way to attract attention.

Attracting attention makes pulling in girls a lot easier.

Blending in is bad. I am willing to bet a large some of money that wearing a suit at a bikers club will get a lot of vagina.

Bad advice. This is a typical case of thinking you know the subject but being eluded by the essence.

Just because you stand out, doesn't mean you're cool. It means your an attention ***** or dressed inappropriate. Standing out the good way is displaying a slight variation. If everyone wears a black suit, you wear a grey suit, or you wear a black suit but unzip a couple of buttons of your shirt, You don't wear a fcking suit at a bikers club.

Jesus Chist, and you have a lot of rep? Seems this forum is more and more populated by little boy scout virgins who stick the finger up the other virgin boy scouts asses and acting like a parrot to achieve some sort of internet status, and plotting some evil scheme to make sure new guys looking for quality advice don't get laid as well. I'm outta here.

I see what you're saying, you have some good points.

 

[Warrior74]

Hi!

Do any of you have experienced how diferent styles of clothing attracts different kinds of ladies.
I'm not talking about the obvious here, like outlaw bikers, emos, Goths etc. but the difference, maybe, between casual office clothes and dark suits.

I've been dressing up lately waering a lot of charcoal, navy and pinstriped suits but not outside of the office.

Do anyone have any personal experience and anecdotes to share outside the "golddiggers go for men in suits" stories?

Yah. I usually work in polos and jeans or kahkis and I get a some attention from average every day women, but when I put on a suit and I'm out meeting clients or around town I get a lot of attention from ALL women. Professional women, better looking women, and the average everyday woman. The suit says, I'm doing something important. Especially if you are running around town in the day and early evening. I went car shopping in a suit as I had just left a meeting and the guy asked me was I like a doctor or lawyer or something and kept calling me sir. The next day I went to a different lot in a t shirt and jeans and could barely get service. People respect the suit even if its on a subconscious level.

 

[FairShake]

I never even see people in suits anymore. Unless it's a wedding or something.

I'm not sure a suited guy would be congruent to most surroundings. Wear it rarely.

I dress pretty conventional. Hell, I dress older than I am, khaks or ****ies, golf, hawaiian, or banlon shirts, loafers or two tones. Works for me in all situations pretty much.

Most of the time I'm in jeans and a tshirt and done well.