"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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difference between date and just meeting

sony007

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hey guys,
whats the difference b/w 2.

what if u r just meeting a gal
AND
what if u have a date with a gal

confused :confused:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Freeman

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Originally posted by sony007
hey guys,
whats the difference b/w 2.

what if u r just meeting a gal
AND
what if u have a date with a gal

confused :confused:
What the hell are you asking?!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
"Meeting" a girl will put you in the friend zone.

Going on a date will get you laid. ;)
I disagree (kinda). Meeting a woman holds no expectations, no meals, no movie, no sex (however, this is not definite).

Going out on a date implies (at least to some men) that YOU will have to entertain her with dinner or a movie but getting laid is not a definite.
 

note.the.smoke

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meeting is cheaper...
 

aftershock

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It depends what you do on the "date". If you kiss her, shag her, etc, a meeting can turn into a "date".

If she needs to go home to wash her hair on a date, and doesn't come back, then chances are it's not going anywhere.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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