"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Did you believe in yourself?

SkillzthatKillz

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Over the two years I have been here, I haven’t posted much as you all can see. But I have been learning and reading, listening to advice rather than give it, because at the time I felt I was not qualified to give any. I have gone out into the field and tested many things.

However as I get ready to leave this site and fly away from its safety and reassurance, I feel I can not leave with out contributing something even if it is a small contribution. Hopefully somebody will find this useful.

If I had to sum up everything I have learned quickly and easy in the two years I have done this, it would be as the title says, to “believe in your self no matter what.”

No matter what happens to you, believe in yourself

You said or did something stupid on a date and screwed up, don’t worry, believe you can over come.

You get fired from your job, don’t worry, believe that you will get a better one.

Your girl friend dumps or cheats on you…….Look you get the point, know matter what happens believe in yourself.

That is all I have to say,it may not be much, to some of you it may be nothing at all, but never forget that one line. When in doubt Believe in yourself, it's just that easy.


Acknowledgements


I can’t leave with out saying thank you, to a few people, I can’t say thank you to all that have helped me, that would take to long, but these are the main people that have helped me. If you’re new here look them up and see what they have to say.


Krassus
Pook
Senor or Mr. Fingers
Sociopath
DIESEL
De La Soul

This site rocks, good luck to everyone. And thank you. Peace
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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kickureface

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i liked this tip. good path on not giving out advice when you dont know anything :)
 

Play the Game

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Actually i like this TIP,
it's so simple and yet it cuts to the root of most people's problems around here.

Belief in yourself is where confidence, courage, determination and will power comes from.
 

sactown1

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somebody once told me "If you don't believe in yourself, why would anyone believe in you?"
 
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