I may just have made the biggest mistake of my life, but lemme describe the whole situation first.
I'm a junior. this senior girl (who's widely considered to be really hot) wanted to go to the prom with me, and she had a teacher ask me. I decided to go along with it. the other day, at school, we talked, and the reason for which we proposed seeing each other was to "see each other's outfit for the prom." I was planning on asking her out anyway. I was gonna say "maybe we should get more acquainted, since we're goin to the prom and such" etc... thing is, up till now, I don't know how she feels, whether she just wants to go to the prom with me, or she really likes me, and wants more. (the reason I don't know is cause the teacher was originally like "it doesn't mean anything, she just wants to go with someone special)... so don't immediately think "idiot, of course she likes you if she wants to go to the prom with you"
tonight we went out. I went to a spot where she picked me up with her car, and we went to a little restaurant. I was almost arguing at the end cause I was trying to pay, but then she made this look, so I agreed to split it... I didn't wanna get shovenistic (sp?)... you know. after that we walked some... I don't know if it was a date!! and then we we're gonna leave. I wanted her to drop me off at a metro station so I wouldn't be any trouble, but she insisted on driving me home cause it was round midnight. she said she wanted to see my suit for the prom (I dunno how serious she was). but I wasn't thinking about going for it so I was like "no I need to see your dress too etc etc"
I was subtly trying to figure out how she felt about me throughout the night, even though I'm not a good flirter. she was talking about an older guy she once dated, and she said that she mustered up the courage to say hi to a hot guy at her gym the other day... I didn't know if this meant she wasn't interested in me. in the car she was asking me if I had kissed someone I think and I was like "would you mind?" and she said "no, why would I mind."
so anyway, she drove me home. we had stopped talking about my suit, and I was trying to tell her how to get home cause she was afraid she'd get lost. so that's where the problem is. I don't know if she was trying to come to my house to get something. I mean, my parents were home, it was midnight, and she didn't know that I lived in the basement... so was she really thinking that?
I was thinking now how I shoulda said when we got there "park, and I'll show you my suit." I guess then I would have to try and flirt, put moves on, and etc. I don't know how to go about those things! I'm horrible at trying to hook up, I'm like "can I kiss you?" or "I wanna kiss you." anyway, that's besides the point.
I was hoping to at least try for a lip kiss goodnight, but of course I don't know how to initiate it, and I don't know how she feels, so we did cheek kisses and she left.
so tell me now, did I screw this up and miss out big time?
if yes, I'm wondering if I should ask her soon "come see my suit"
I'm a junior. this senior girl (who's widely considered to be really hot) wanted to go to the prom with me, and she had a teacher ask me. I decided to go along with it. the other day, at school, we talked, and the reason for which we proposed seeing each other was to "see each other's outfit for the prom." I was planning on asking her out anyway. I was gonna say "maybe we should get more acquainted, since we're goin to the prom and such" etc... thing is, up till now, I don't know how she feels, whether she just wants to go to the prom with me, or she really likes me, and wants more. (the reason I don't know is cause the teacher was originally like "it doesn't mean anything, she just wants to go with someone special)... so don't immediately think "idiot, of course she likes you if she wants to go to the prom with you"
tonight we went out. I went to a spot where she picked me up with her car, and we went to a little restaurant. I was almost arguing at the end cause I was trying to pay, but then she made this look, so I agreed to split it... I didn't wanna get shovenistic (sp?)... you know. after that we walked some... I don't know if it was a date!! and then we we're gonna leave. I wanted her to drop me off at a metro station so I wouldn't be any trouble, but she insisted on driving me home cause it was round midnight. she said she wanted to see my suit for the prom (I dunno how serious she was). but I wasn't thinking about going for it so I was like "no I need to see your dress too etc etc"
I was subtly trying to figure out how she felt about me throughout the night, even though I'm not a good flirter. she was talking about an older guy she once dated, and she said that she mustered up the courage to say hi to a hot guy at her gym the other day... I didn't know if this meant she wasn't interested in me. in the car she was asking me if I had kissed someone I think and I was like "would you mind?" and she said "no, why would I mind."
so anyway, she drove me home. we had stopped talking about my suit, and I was trying to tell her how to get home cause she was afraid she'd get lost. so that's where the problem is. I don't know if she was trying to come to my house to get something. I mean, my parents were home, it was midnight, and she didn't know that I lived in the basement... so was she really thinking that?
I was thinking now how I shoulda said when we got there "park, and I'll show you my suit." I guess then I would have to try and flirt, put moves on, and etc. I don't know how to go about those things! I'm horrible at trying to hook up, I'm like "can I kiss you?" or "I wanna kiss you." anyway, that's besides the point.
I was hoping to at least try for a lip kiss goodnight, but of course I don't know how to initiate it, and I don't know how she feels, so we did cheek kisses and she left.
so tell me now, did I screw this up and miss out big time?
if yes, I'm wondering if I should ask her soon "come see my suit"
