"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Did i show too much interest?

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freshprince

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I collected this chicks number about 2 weeks ago, we text and talked on the phone from time to time but i tried not to do it too much because i wanted to show her i was interested but not too interested...anyways on Wednesday she did not come to class so i text her "I kind of missed ya last night, why u didn't come to class?" she responded in a nice way but now since then she hasn't called or text and now I'm thinking what the **** did i do wrong. I don't want to call her because then it would really seem like if i am showing a little too much interest than i was suppose to.

I like this girl and i want to know if i messed up my chances with her?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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thats because she is an idiot. they all have a justified reason why they do things. but lets get him another answer.
 
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The words "I missed you" is a feminine term. Girls use those words to me if they haven't seen me in a while. Those words SHOULD NEVER be used by a man. You might as well said "I am desperate to be with you, why didn't you come by yesterday so I can drool over you". You fuvked this up. Now, you need COMPLETE change of character. Act like you have a girlfriend. She will be confused on why you have changed. You have about 33% chance to recover. Do as I say.
 
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