"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Did I screw up my chances withh this girl?

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ElStud

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Okay, so I'm in track and I say something and apparently this Taylor girl likes it so she says "Do it again!" in a tone that says she liked it. But then I think I screwed it up when I said "Ah, you liked that baby?" then she said "Just do it again" and I'm like "Sorry baby, I don't give my self away for free like that" and I think I killed it with that. Later when I talked to her she wasn't as interested. I think things are going to get good with this chick again though, because my friend talked to her for me and she said that she said I have to come and talk to her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How exactly is it possible for you to get with this girl? Are you going to show interest in her? I think you should! If you look at telivision, friends for example, Ross took years to make a move on Rach, and he only did that due to curcumstances being perfect.

Say something like "hmmm I think your sexy but your so demanding it would probably never work out". Whatever happens happens, who cares.

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Have you tried making yoshi noises?

Honestly I thought you knew everything about women and were the God of this board. Since you know so much, you should atleast be able to answer your own question.
 
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