tomwesten27
Don Juan
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I met this plate at a party, we hooked up, exchanged numbers.
Went on a "date" the other day for drinks and had a lot of fun but the girl is very wishy washy with what she wants.
Last night I get texts from her that she is high. She starts a minor argument that has nothing to do with anything and doesn't even make sense because she was high. I chose to ignore at a point because we had scheduled to see each other today at 530.
I message her at 1pm today confirming today and she gets back to me at 640....saying "Omg I am sorry was really busy, I am free now!."
I ignored and 10 minutes later she called. I told her "I didn't hear from you so I made other dinner plans, but maybe we can do something tonight if I am back early enough."
She goes "Oh. alright well I don't want to wait I rather make plans with another friend then"
I said "Okay if thats what you want to do. thats disappointing it would of been great to see you but no worries. I gotta run ttyl."
She then texts me saying "I want to do something with you! I can wait for you to get back." (I don't respond) (she texts again 1 hour later) "So what did you want to do anyway?" (30mins later) "I am sorry that was rude I meant to say what do you want to do after you are done with dinner
?" (I don't respond)
She just called me, I didn't answer.
I feel like this girl has no idea what she wants. To add I know for a fact she has multiple guy plates she is spinning as well because she was drunkingly telling me this when I first met her.
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With that all said. I find it hard to "next" plates. The inner beta that I am trying to get rid of sometimes says "Ahhh give the girl a break." Then the Alpha side says "WTF YOU WIMP NEXT HER AZZ."
I have another plate tomorrow that has been flawless with me. A blast to hang out with etc. So why waste time with the wishy washy ones right?
Did I do the right thing here? Next her for good?
Went on a "date" the other day for drinks and had a lot of fun but the girl is very wishy washy with what she wants.
Last night I get texts from her that she is high. She starts a minor argument that has nothing to do with anything and doesn't even make sense because she was high. I chose to ignore at a point because we had scheduled to see each other today at 530.
I message her at 1pm today confirming today and she gets back to me at 640....saying "Omg I am sorry was really busy, I am free now!."
I ignored and 10 minutes later she called. I told her "I didn't hear from you so I made other dinner plans, but maybe we can do something tonight if I am back early enough."
She goes "Oh. alright well I don't want to wait I rather make plans with another friend then"
I said "Okay if thats what you want to do. thats disappointing it would of been great to see you but no worries. I gotta run ttyl."
She then texts me saying "I want to do something with you! I can wait for you to get back." (I don't respond) (she texts again 1 hour later) "So what did you want to do anyway?" (30mins later) "I am sorry that was rude I meant to say what do you want to do after you are done with dinner
?" (I don't respond)She just called me, I didn't answer.
I feel like this girl has no idea what she wants. To add I know for a fact she has multiple guy plates she is spinning as well because she was drunkingly telling me this when I first met her.
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With that all said. I find it hard to "next" plates. The inner beta that I am trying to get rid of sometimes says "Ahhh give the girl a break." Then the Alpha side says "WTF YOU WIMP NEXT HER AZZ."
I have another plate tomorrow that has been flawless with me. A blast to hang out with etc. So why waste time with the wishy washy ones right?
Did I do the right thing here? Next her for good?