"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Developing an adventurous personality!

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Well, anyone seen any articles or can give any clever words?

I've checked the bible, but nothing great yet. My problem is trying to develop that really adventurous side of me.

So far, I do things like rock climbing and go meet new people... not sure if that's what adventurous means, though.

And no! I'm not doing anything stoopid! Like getting a mohawk, or tying my BMX to a Motor Bike and riding 120km/h. :-( - That reminds me: stoopidity doesn't mean adventure, does it? Just curious to hear your opinions.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hehehe, adventure is for the brave keeper:cheer:

adventurous means your willing to do anything within your limits, you can be adventurous, dangerous, active, exciting etc... there's combinations of words that can be used to describe a person that make-up an "adventurous" personality.

I assume you mean adventurous persona though, since a personality is in your mind and basically conveyed through words.

when I consider dangerous, I just run my mind wild with thoughts of being daring and dashing. pumps me up.


Are you looking for ideas, inspiration, or "advice"? I can't provide advice, I am but a feather in the storm, my advice should hold no weight.


All that I have to lay before you is that I am a hardwired human, looking to reach new limits, show people things that they have not seen for ages, and to inspire others to stop being slack asses and to get up and laugh at yourself
 
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Stop giving a **** about rules and social norms. Live like you are terminally ill and about to keel over anytime.
 

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No, stupidity means not spelling "stupid" correctly. :p j/k Girls are typically VERY boring people. As a matter of fact, I haven't met one yet who wasn't. "Yeah, I like shoppiiiing, hanging out with friends, things like that." :rolleyes: Anyway, they want a man who ISN'T boring, to make their lives exciting, even if it means just being with a cool guy. I think adventurous is anyone who tries new things, and isn't afraid to do things that aren't really that popular. Exciting is even better. Better still, is the "dangerous" persona. Chicks dig risk-taking guys, they got balls, they show it, everyone knows it. I think any girl gets a rush when they ride in my car with me because I speed like a maniac. Just simple things like that will give her a rush when she's around you. She feels like you are more powerful and she is living her life through you really.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Go online and check out some adventure travel shops. eg. skydiving, other extreme sports. There is a huge following. Also, get into river rafting, that is some fun stuff, and chicks love it.
Check out adventure at about.com
 
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