"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Destroying Social Barriers

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If your in high school, then most likely you are limited to a certain group, and only get to choose between a small group of women.

Our job is to destroy these social structures in school, and allow aspiring young DJs like me to choose between any group of girls he wants.

Especially because by now, you've talked to the same girls you've talked to your whole life:eek:

So how would we go about destroying social structures like race, money, music choice, goth, hip-hop, nerd, etc.??

You must have the basic things down, if not get those first!

1. humor- Def Comedy Jam, old Eddie Murphy, Pryor, check those out

2. Hygeine- wash your ass

3. low social phobia/talking skills- check out Mr. Fingers' post for that
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I'll be back with more after my piano recital.

If you have ideas, drop em here!

pz
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Styles
If your in high school, then most likely you are limited to a certain group, and only get to choose between a small group of women.

Our job is to destroy these social structures in school, and allow aspiring young DJs like me to choose between any group of girls he wants.

Especially because by now, you've talked to the same girls you've talked to your whole life:eek:

So how would we go about destroying social structures like race, money, music choice, goth, hip-hop, nerd, etc.??

You must have the basic things down, if not get those first!

1. humor- Def Comedy Jam, old Eddie Murphy, Pryor, check those out

2. Hygeine- wash your ass

3. low social phobia/talking skills- check out Mr. Fingers' post for that
-----

I'll be back with more after my piano recital.

If you have ideas, drop em here!

pz
Choose between a small group of women? Please, its like a buffet for me. But theres a lot of shyt on the buffet that i dont wont. So i guess im ok. If you want a certain type of girl try to get her. A post dedicated to the fact isnt 100% needed in my eyes but whatever.
 

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^^^

Your right.

"If you want a certain girl, go get her"


But that's not my point

My main point is this:

Explore your options, and don't limit your vision to certain group of girls.

Look for women outside your own social world, ecspecially in high school, where most people stay in their own little group

you know?
 

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Originally posted by Styles
^^^

Your right.

"If you want a certain girl, go get her"


But that's not my point

My main point is this:

Explore your options, and don't limit your vision to certain group of girls.

Look for women outside your own social world, ecspecially in high school, where most people stay in their own little group

you know?
Yea i know what you mean but some people are too close minded to even take this into consideration. Since you cant control your level of attraction to anyone itd be kinda hard if youre only attracted to a certain type of girls. This could work but only to some extent.
 

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Even if its to get friends, breaking the social barriers is a good thing to do no matter what. Having a few friends in every group and being most at home with your boys is better than being limited to just a few people.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The more peeps you get to know in the school, the better. more friends, more party, more connections, everyone's happy.

However, I think one main thing that stops certain people, and even me to an extent, is group boundaries. Every group has a certain "air" about it. For example, in my school, there's group of white guys wit their hot white chicks that hang together, there's the gangs that hang together, there's the "chump line", and etc...

To enter a new group, u have to feel the aura around the group.

That's what I think
 
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