"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Destroying fear of ridicule - Public Pranks

Mindgamez

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I think that doing outrageous things in public helps to stop caring about what other people say. You start getting used to being different, unique, and you will care less and less about looking like an idiot, being gross or annoying, etc. Also, you have a LOT of FUN!

I made a public farting pranks video. CHECK IT OUT! :) It is hilarious!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lWW3...ceJjHx_sdRgc4K19Mh3xAgNmU51LPic&feature=inbox

Next time, I might try interacting with random girls and interrupt the conversation with a good squeeze. That would be so funny haha. Or I might do leg lifts, or fart on random objects at the shop to put them back on the shelf.

What kind of public pranks you guys do? Please share them with us. I want to get over this fear.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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