"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Deep Dish LIVE on NYE 2008 - DJ mix

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I had a sunrise afterhours techno party at my house on NYE and recorded this mix. I couldn't preview the songs in my headphones, so when selecting the tracks I really had to know the songs by heart.

Part 1
Part 2

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Part 2 picks up at "Legacy" right before mixing in "Forgotten."

1. Orbital - Halycon + On + On
2. Sasha - Wavy Gravy (Aston's Rara Avis Mix)
3. Mango - Sascha Funke
4. Lee Jones - Aria (Tiger Stripes)
5. Morgan Page - The Longest Road (Deadmau5)
6. Daniel Portman - Wellness Park
7. Kaskade - Angel On My Shoulder feat Tamra Keenan (EDX's Belo Horizonte At Night )
8. Holmtik - That Piano Track
9. Hybrid - Finished Symphony (Deadmau5)
10. Kings of Tomorrow - Finally (Those Usual Suspects)
11. Deadmau5 - Faxing Berlin
12. Booka Shade - Charlotte
13. Emilio Fernandez - Reynosa VS. Adam Freeland - We Want Your Soul
14. Lens - Let The Let In
15. Infusion - Legacy (Junkie XL)
16. Booka Shade - Forgotten
17. Hideo Kobayashi - The Jump Off
18. Jaytech - Engage
19. Daniel Portman - Wellness Park (Helvetic Nerds)
20. Hernan Nunzi - My Big Time
21. Lutzenkirchen - Bahia Melody
22. Lutzenkirchen - For A Friend
23. Trafik - Le Beeatch (Roland Klinkenberg instrumental)
24. Chris Lake - Only One
25. James Zabiela - Perseverance
26. Kris Menace & Felix Da Housecat - Artificial
27. Adam K & Soha - Long Distance
28. Way Out West - Spaceman
29. Chris Lake - Carry Me Away (instrumental)
30. Deadmau5 - Jaded
31. Quivver - Surin
32. Sultan & Tone Depth - Please

(total time: 2 hours and 51 min)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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woot deep dish thank you! great thing your doin right hurr
 
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I think part one might be your best song selection so far.
 
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Deepdish, my offer still stands for you to come to vegas to make some cash cheif. You've got talent. Hobby or not you've got a touch for the 1's and 2's.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Deep Dish said:
3. Mango - Sascha Funke
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Oh crap. I screwed up the tracklisting. It's Sascha Funke - Mango.
PRMoon:
Deepdish, my offer still stands for you to come to vegas to make some cash cheif. You've got talent. Hobby or not you've got a touch for the 1's and 2's.
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Some day I'll take you up on that offer.
KarmaSutra:
That sh!t is tight as hell!
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Thank you, thank you, really.
 
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hey thanks! going to use this for the gym
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It's good, but it brighs back a feeling of a lazy sunday afternoon.....I can't work out to that sh!t.....i was even looking for a good mix to work out to.
 
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Next time I'll toss in some Daft Punk. Work out harder, better, faster, stronger. :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Got some talent...good job .. I enjoy very much your mix
 
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Are you trying to say you're the real Deep Dish? Huh...

1. Orbital - Halycon + On + On
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This is a really well done song which I think has stood the test of time.
 
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Luthor Rex said:
Are you trying to say you're the real Deep Dish? Huh...
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LOL. "Deep Dish," on its own merits, regardless of reference to pizzas or music, sounded like such a cool nickname and I suck at name creativity. It was a neat little alluding homage I figured nobody would notice. It wasn't until four years afterwards that I got into DJing. :)
 
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