"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Debating about a girl.....

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Ever been in a situation where a girl comes along, who u consider to be better than your average one night stands...and you are on the fence whether she could be GF material or not. I'm sitting here wondering if i could do better, and go for one the 2 girls who ive had a thing for, for a long time. I would hate to look back and regret turning her down, and not being able to get better. IF i date her it may ruin my chance with the other two, and i could possibly always be debating in my head if i made the right choice. I know this is a bit confusing to follow... To sum it up, would it be better for a girl who is hot, not a slut, cute, but you dont really feel a spark for. Or go for one of the other two who have the same qualities but i really have a thing for, and possibly fail. Than i would be out all 3:). I may be reading too much into this im only in 2nd year, its not like im going to marry the next GF i have, but i never know i really want to have a fire for the person i date, but dont want to pass up a great catch AHHH i know i reiterated myself 3 times but if you can follow and advice is welcome
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Go for the girl who you will be happy with. Go for the girl who you can be around and do whatever with. Go for the girl that will help you. Don't go on looks or you might end up with a dumb b!tch that you wished you never asked out. It's all about her personality when looking for a girlfriend. If you're looking for a few fvcks and then, quit it. Then, its the girl with the looks.
 
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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Go for the girl who you will be happy with. Go for the girl who you can be around and do whatever with. Go for the girl that will help you. Don't go on looks or you might end up with a dumb b!tch that you wished you never asked out. It's all about her personality when looking for a girlfriend. If you're looking for a few fvcks and then, quit it. Then, its the girl with the looks.
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Not necessarily true.
 
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