"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ares

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anyone got something to say how to deal with these....ps: writing this in drunken state(english is not my native laungauge....but seriously drunk or not, these death treats are real not some fictinioll bull****....its a brother of my best friend who issued them cause I dint tell him where his brother was(my best friend dint want him to know) ao if anyone has any advice on how to fix this please speak up....pps: this guy who treathned me is wery likely to do what he says...he is going to prison for two years and as he said doesnt mind a couple of extra years....Im not really scared, mostly nervous... seeing as thoug he treatend both me and my family...Im not scared on my behalf but on my familys....so if anyone has any advice to give pleas say something soon....or else it seeems Im dead tomorow by four....in that case, nice to knoe you all....
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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yo dawg, the word is "threatened" and "threat"

Anywho, most people just get caught up in the moment, and if they've cooled off they won't follow through. I'd tell my family about it, and tell them be on the lookout, and i'd carry some kinda concealed weapon. Also don't go anywhere alone.


Good Luck
 

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First of all, quit drinking. It'll only make the situation work. Especially if you're drunk when he confronts you.

Second of all, don't carry a fvcking weapon. Thats just an excuse for him to kill you.

Third of all, "a couple extra years?" Yeah right, this guy is talking out of his ass. Either way, take it easy, tell the cops about it just so they have something on record just in case something really does go down.

Good luck brother
 

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Originally posted by Ares
anyone got something to say how to deal with these....ps: writing this in drunken state(english is not my native laungauge....but seriously drunk or not, these death treats are real not some fictinioll bull****....its a brother of my best friend who issued them cause I dint tell him where his brother was(my best friend dint want him to know) ao if anyone has any advice on how to fix this please speak up....pps: this guy who treathned me is wery likely to do what he says...he is going to prison for two years and as he said doesnt mind a couple of extra years....Im not really scared, mostly nervous... seeing as thoug he treatend both me and my family...Im not scared on my behalf but on my familys....so if anyone has any advice to give pleas say something soon....or else it seeems Im dead tomorow by four....in that case, nice to knoe you all....

ok im going to be down ****ing straight with you, dont drunk, next thing you know he will get you in a Bar.


But what are the odds he will "sent you up the river" all bunch of ****. But what ever you do try not to call the cops, Unless you see him with a weapon, or threats you Many more times.................







AND ALL WAYS WATCH YOU BACK IN ALLEYS.

Good luck dude.
 

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hey guys, sorry for that post....dont really know why I posted it? anyway, I talked to the guy and made a few things clear to him this morning so It looks like Im safe again....oh and thanks for the advice (even though they speak against eachother ;) )

Ares out
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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what?????? No murders, doh. oh well just pay off drinking if its possbie..........
 
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