"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dear Santa i met a girl at barber's shop

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Hi Dear Santa, its been a while and i need help so here it is. I met hairdresser at barber's shop while ago and i like her, so i asked next time i were getting my haircut, that if she have a BF (which i knew already, i just wanted to be sure) She laughed and said that "yes, i have a BF, sorry". After that i said "im going out someday and you can come with me if you like" she said that "im kinda shy" i replied that "that dosent trouble me" but she said "that troubles me" and "come back next time your hair grows up".

Should i ask her out again or just
forget her?

what i should do?

I dont know.

Any suggestions?

Thank you for reading my letter.

Merry Christmas! :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dear Smoke Screen,
If you met a girl in a barber's shop how certain are you she's not a guy who's undergone sex change, lol.
Merry christmas for saving you the trouble, ho ho ho ho!
 
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jafyk, Im sure that she is a girl but i want to make sure, so stepX is take off pants of a girl to make sure if she is a guy or girl, but what is step1 then? I dont know jafyk too many numbers.
 
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Dear Smoke Screen,

Too bad, already got you a NERF gun.

-- Santa
 
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Dear Smoke Screen,

Too bad, already got you a NERF gun.

-- Santa
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Nice one lol.

On a serious note though, she is obviouslly not interested in you or dosn't have as much interest in you than her boyfriend. Move on there is a billion girls in the world for you to go rather than this one who is not interested. Just forget about her and get some new plates, if later in life she breaks up with him and you are up then thats kool, it comes when it comes just don't wait for it. i don't even think santa will be able to help you with this one.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thank you for help. I think im going there next time aswell to get my haircut,
This time with a NERF gun. She cuts my hair pretty nice so she can cut that for sometime then. :) cya
 
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