Dealing with rejection...

[t510]

Hi
Any tips on dealing with rejection ? I assume a no response to a few msgs means NI... I think I'm a strong type A personality ... I really don't deal well with things not going as planned... I read about confident persistence but it clearly didn't work.

 

[muscleman]

You deal with rejection by moving on to the next girl. No response = not interested. By persisting when she expressed her lack of interest, you're not 'confidently persistent', you're a stalker. Move on.

 

[PlayHer Man]

The best way to deal with rejection is to consider it a favor. Assume she was probably a b*tch anyway so you're better off.

There are a few girls I dated who I wish have rejected me early on.

 

[VladPatton]

The best way to deal with rejection is to consider it a favor. Assume she was probably a b*tch anyway so you're better off.

There are a few girls I dated who I wish have rejected me early on.

Exactly. She just did you a HUGE favor right off the bat. Keep persisting and you may not like your wish.

When she says "yes", THAT'S when your problems begin.

 

[BadNews]

Best way I've found is to adopt the find frame that YOU are the prize. You NEED to honestly believe this. Nobody knows better than you how great a catch you really are. You know you're a great guy, and ANY woman would be lucky to have the OPPORTUNITY to have you inside her. If a woman rejects you, it is nothing more than her loss.

Works for me anyways...granted I AM one hell of a catch heh!