"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dealing with Phonesex

zoom rader

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How do u deal with Phonesex coming from women? What are the rules for this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm not exactly sure what your question is or what specifically you would like to know. Feel free to PM me or expand on your question here.

Do you want to know how to get phone s@x or just how to get better or comfortable with it?

Just to scratch the surface, like real s@x, there are two types of phone s@x: romantic lovemaking type and the aggressive caveman type. It's really important to know which she is into.

The romantic one is easier to get into with a new female because you can start out talking about "safe" topics like cuddling and maybe kissing. Before long, you can be talking about more graphic stuff and have her playing with herself on the other end.
 

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Ok, what i meant was , If a woman wants to get in phonesex what should a guy do. Is it a shvt test or should u play along with her.
 

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I don't think it's a sh@t test. How did she ask? Of course you don't want her to tell you what to do or order you around, so tease her playfully a little first.

ZoomsChick: Hon, I wanna have some umm phone fun.
Zoom: We COULD.... If you're a good girl.
ZoomsChick: I'll be good.
Zoom: You better. Don't make me come over there lol.
ZoomsChick: mmm

Then go for it and use it as an opportunity to turn her on even more. Done properly, she will be begging you to come over.

Is it possible for her to engage in several phone s@x sessions and not put out? I've never had that happen, but I would still be careful of that. Worst case if that happens, get her really hot over the phone and close to orgasm. Suggest that you come over. If she says no, be polite and say "That's ok. I have to get going anyway. Talk to you later.". Then hang up.

Your phone will probably ring shortly due to her girlie blue b&lls lol.
 
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