"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dealing with other guys

happyDJ

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Ok. Everything here is written on how to think like an alpha, self-improve, enjoy life, and break free from society's commercial/religious fairy tales.
And in the meantime, how to deal with women.

But how do we deal with other guys?
Specifically, these types:

1. Your girl's ex.
2. The guy you find sleeping in your bed.
3. The husband of the woman you're banging (and after you get caught).
4. Your ex's new boyfriend, when you're alone with him.
5. The boyfriend of the woman you're interested in.
(let's assume there's no work relation involved, just personal level)

When to laugh with them as best friends and ignore the women around. When to fight these guys. When to completely ignore them.

Naturally, you would want to spend the least time with these types of guys. But sometimes it's unavoidable.

Any threads or reading material on this?
I'd appreciate your thoughts on this. Seems like a topic very unwritten about.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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thatfeel

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Wait, is this guy serious?
 

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1. Indifference.
2. If that happens, he better be prepared to jump out a 4th floor window.
3. Wouldn't put myself in that scenario. Drop her.
4. Indifference.
5. Wouldn't put myself in that scenario either. Drop her.
 
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