"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dealing with mood swings

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Wasn't sure which forum to put this in, but I figured I'd probably get the best responses from the more "mature" crowd. Anyways, I'm suffering from mood swings and it's affecting not only my ability to interact with women but life in general. These changes in mood are either totally random or triggered by very trivial events. The worst thing about it is that my moods seem to be co-dependent. If I'm feeling really good for whatever reason, there's a 95% chance that I'd be feeling really sh*tty later on. I guess you could use a drug addict analogy: the higher he gets, the harder the withdrawal symptoms afterward.

So, any thoughts on this? Oh, and medications are out of the question. I'm not interested in trading one problem for another and turning into a f*cking zombie.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Cut the caffeine imediatly. I know several people whose moods sway back and forth with there increased caffeine intake. At first after you stop it will get worse but in 30 days you will feel fantastic.

Eat healthier more whole grains veggies, Cut out simple carbs such as sugar and glucose.

Drink camomile tea or a more relaxing tea.

Excercise 3-5 times a week

Meditate.

most of all just relax.

P.S. Get enough sleep!!
 

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Cut the caffeine imediatly. I know several people whose moods sway back and forth with there increased caffeine intake. At first after you stop it will get worse but in 30 days you will feel fantastic.

Eat healthier more whole grains veggies, Cut out simple carbs such as sugar and glucose.

Drink camomile tea or a more relaxing tea.

Excercise 3-5 times a week

Meditate.

most of all just relax.

P.S. Get enough sleep!!
 
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