Dealing with friends of a girl you're hitting

[adit]

Ok so today I hit on one girl.Everything's fine with her.But her friends..

You see,the group of girls she hangs out with right now were really,really close friends of mine 2 years ago.And then,I got stuck in some problem and lost them as friends.We haven't really talked much since then,just know each other academically.

So,do you think her friends might talk about me if I ask this girl out?If they do,would it be to my advantage or against me?

How do you handle friends of the girl you're hitting on in general?

 

[Subjective]

Well, if you're doing it right..she won't care as much what her friends think.

 

[snobby]

Ohh not good.

I am almost positive that her friends (aka your ex-friends) will definitely mention about you and especially the bad things, just to put you down and to make a conversation. Women love doing this. It causes drama, which they love, and they will also want to 'pay you back' by doing it. Don't ask why, that is how women think, and let's just leave it at that. There's your first question answered...and that is yes, there is a 90% chance they will talk to her about the bad things they experienced with you.

Now I personally have this belief that there is some sort of connection between women. There was another thread recently, and we were discussing APPROVAL from other women causes the interest of other woman. In other words, women seem to pay attention and to actually care what other women think of you. If a certain woman is interested in you, and then another woman finds out about it, then that other women will see you in higher standard as a person. So if these ex-friends of yours start the bickering and their blah blah blah about you, then there is a chance that she will be more careful around you and watch your behavior...be more in the open. No she won't stop dating you because of it lol, it's not as serious as I make it to be.

HOWEVER, if she does eventually spend some time with you, and you make her realze (if you don't mess up) that you aren't what her friends made you appear to be at all, then she will forget what her friends said to her about you really fast. The key is for her to spend enough time with you and feel attraction for you; the rest is history.

And also, don't discuss this with her! Act cool and confident about yourself...LIKE yourself, be happy with yourself. You don't give a flying fish sandwich what other people think about you. Women feel more attracted to guys who don't care what other people think of them.

So start dating her and don't really worry about it. It's just the usual women drama, it'll go away.

 

[adit]

Thanks for the replies guys,I figured too that women love to gossip and just need a small topic to begin with.

Actually what happened between me and my 'ex-friends' wasn't like I insulted them,or did anything of that sort.It's just that I started hanging out with different people and they didn't like it,so me and them stopped talking.

Yeah I'm still gonna hit on this girl,I'll take my chances.If it gets real bad,then I'll just next this girl.There are 100 more in my school ready to get hit lol.