"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dealing With Bullies

ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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well just in case i wanna ask yall somthin. if you guys are out on a date and then someone or group of people are giving you couples a hard time by picking on you guys, what is the best way to react without making your girl think of you as a wuss. i thought about fighting back, but idk how. besides, those bunch of people may be tougher or they wouldn't pick on people in the first place. what if they're bigger than me.
suggestions?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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exwhyzee

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This reminds me of dating shows like ELIMADATE, where you got 4 dudes trying to fight for some chick. When a girl has five guys to choose from she will generally rule out one that just looks like and idiot in the first round, then its down to 3 where you might have two fighting over her and one just watching. Whats the best advice you all would give to people in situations like Elimadate, because at basically thats how life is when you are trying to pick up girls, you got a million other competitors out there, whats the best way to deal with hostile ones?
 

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How are they giving you a problem? Verbally? Physically? Are they making jokes at your expense trying to C-block you? Are they pushing you around? Just being *******s and trying to get you to swing at them with various comments?

Also, where is this happneing. Clubs? Bars? Diners? Where.

What I would do personally is probably ignore them or just move to another area saying to my date that I don't feel like being bothered. If it's at a place where there are bouncers, you can just say, "Listen. Leave us alone. I don't really wanna bother getting into anything because it's a sure bet that the bouncers will step in and we'll all be thrown out." or something like that.

But give us a little more details to work off of.

Alexi
 

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sheeeeit

That sux, really brave of them. Man, I would ignore them and move away. If they keep pestering you just walk toward security and tell them. Security dudes LIKE having couples in the club because they are usualy behaved, groupf of men should be barred at the bloody door.
 

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If they are giving you verbal abuse speak to the bouncers. They will all too happy to kick the trouble makers out of the bar/club.


Originally posted by ROOKIE OF THE YEAR
well just in case i wanna ask yall somthin. if you guys are out on a date and then someone or group of people are giving you couples a hard time by picking on you guys, what is the best way to react without making your girl think of you as a wuss. i thought about fighting back, but idk how. besides, those bunch of people may be tougher or they wouldn't pick on people in the first place. what if they're bigger than me.
suggestions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Re: Re: Dealing With Bullies

Originally posted by englishcrap
If they are giving you verbal abuse speak to the bouncers. They will all too happy to kick the trouble makers out of the bar/club.
Yeah and if they're a bunch of *******s they will probably wait for you outside the club to kick your ass if you come out :D
 

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Re: Re: Re: Dealing With Bullies

Maybe your right but I speak from personal experience..

In the past when I have had problems like this I have spoke to security at the door. Back in December I had two guys giving me racial abuse in a bar in London. The bouncers threw them both out after I complained.

As I have left the bar I have always been polite to the bouncers and thanked them for helping me out. Just in case I need assistance outside the doors.



Originally posted by Levrone
Yeah and if they're a bunch of *******s they will probably wait for you outside the club to kick your ass if you come out :D
 

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Smile and ask if it wasent about time for them to move on from this 3rd grade school yard behaviour.

Remember smile, and look happy, dont make it look like it bothers u.
 

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I've read a little bit on fastseduction.com and they're always talking about AMOGing (Alpha Male Other Guy, I think...not 100% sure) guys. Like showing your alpha dominance over them. You might want to take a look there. Sorry I can't give you a direct link, you just have to pick up pieces of it (If you find an article about it, link me). Just don't let them show dominance over you.
 

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Originally posted by fuzzx
Take a martial art... I guarntee you will simply exude a different aura after a few weeks! After taking an art, this kind of stuff won't bother you at all because you'll know how easy it is to put someone in a wheelchair for life. If anything you'll pity the poor sucker who really pisses you off.
Hahaha do you really think you learn a martial arts within several weeks and beat someone into a wheelchair? You watched to much movies bro. :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Purchase an Uzi 9mm and stick it in the belt under your jacket.

Everytime someone gives you hassle open your jacket. As soon as they see the gun they will shut the f**k up :D :D
 

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"At least I HAVE a girl. What're you fags doing here?"
 

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"Take a martial art... I guarntee you will simply exude a different aura after a few weeks! After taking an art, this kind of stuff won't bother you at all because you'll know how easy it is to put someone in a wheelchair for life. If anything you'll pity the poor sucker who really pisses you off."

Exactly. And then you spend the next 5 years in prison perfecting your art even further.
 

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That's really pathetic advice! **** man, i've spent several yrs praticing several martial arts (it's just something I love) and alot of the **** you learn you can't use in the street unless it's life or death. You can't use excessive force without proper cause, and trust me every detail gets examined when you get brought in for using excessive force. Check it, get a pen taser (500,000v); first check if it's legal in your county. If you're really feeling insecure, take up boxing and get in better shape.

You never want to kill, unless it's necessary and most of the time it isn't. Value life.

Now don't think just because your ass knows martial arts or knows how to fight it's wise to challenge 5 guys at the sametime. That's just stupid. You only fight when you have no other choice. Nothing wrong with running away; after all what they're doing is coward behavior.

I might know martial arts, but that doesn't mean i'll win a fight with 5 thugs. After all they might have shanks or glocks. Don't use a shank or a glock unless you're prepared for the consequences. So man, stick with the taser and a roll of quarters to put in your fist if it comes down to throwing punches.

Don't use pepper spray cause a backdraft might make it hit you instead. You can use the pepper foam if you like, but a taser is good enough.

Aien't no honor in street fighting.
 

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Most martial arts are BS. While you're figuring out your moves, a good, experieneced street fighter will knock you on your ass. I'm an ex amateur boxing champ, and I've found it works well, but good old street feeting is the best.


As for your bullies, ATTITUDE will get you far. These days, it's stupid to challenge anyone without a good reason. One of these days your bullies will run into the wrong psycho carrying a gun, and that'll be that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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if you tried to fight 5 guys they will just gang up on you and humiliate you.

I noticed most people tend to pick on you more when they out number you.

it's pretty uncommon for one guy all by himself to start trouble
 
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