"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dealing with all guys school

Stags09

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Ok so im a sophomore at an all guys school and i go there to play football. we are one of the best schools in the country period and everybodys knows are name the thing is i play fullback so im not this litlle skinny 160 5"11" kid i weigh 205 lbs. and climbing and im basically a tank thick neck the works how in the hell do i just approach girls with out them being intimidated and what not. Another thing i have noticed since im not that little lacrosse player kid with the long hair girls just **** on you. man i cant wait till i get to college and girls know what they want and not just this man purse to carry around you know what i mean? And another thing why in the hell do these girls act so damn inmature running around be all loud and **** and laughing smoke a damn joint chill out.
Another thing where can i approach girls besides the mall girls at my local mall just seem to be so damn stuck up i wanna :kick: Sorry for my rant any oppinions would be cool.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kev07

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my friend goes to an all guy school. coincidentally, there is an all girls school nearby.

my friend is always inviting me to go to mixers of the 2 schools, which are organized all the time it seems. you should check that out.
 

The Shocker

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Concentrate on paying attention in your English class.
 

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The Shocker said:
Concentrate on paying attention in your English class.
Sorry thats damn hilarious, o and u should go to gym and meat them there.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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