"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dealing with a Jealousy problem

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My Crushed Star tells me how she was "once" very attractive at the age of 28, I guess she was attractive enough to have US Open champian Pete Sampras give her his phone number, when she happened to be shopping at Macy's in 1990, and she noticed a flood of people around a table. Pete Sampras is very shy, to the point of retardness, his former coaches say, and my girlfriend even said it.

I get massive jealousy attacks when she mentioned how beautiful she used to look and how guys like Pete Sampras would date and sleep with her. I get jealous because I questioned my interest in her from the start because she in in her mid 40s and very obese (165 lbs at 5'4"), and that there are so many more opportunities for fertile/more beautiful woman in NYC.

The reason I get jealous because I feel like she is pointing out how these other stars go her at her best, and I only deserve "second best". I tan/work out, and I could be a Chip n' Dale dancer. She watched Pete Sampras play at his first US Open win in Flushing NY, and said that she slept with him 3-4 times during their 3 month dating spree....he left for California, and she did not want to have a relationship long distance...he later called her a while later to say he was visiting NYC, but the time since seeing him was too long for her to sustain her interest in him....

But the point of this post is to get your help on how to stop being jealous of this famous/rich celebrity that my girlfriend actually called to start the relationship (I had to call and offer the usual dating setup to get her to go out with me)

There is no way on this earth that Pete Sampras would ask for her phone number now, but he had her waiting in his private press box in the US Open Stadium, ready to have sex with that night probably...

That said, she was a slut, and had sex with many men over the course of her life, including this famous person.

How can I stop being jealous of all of the men that had her when she had a million dollar body?

I can't wait until this relationship ends, so that I can meet the 10,000 woman here that did not give me this pain and heartache...please help..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Reed247

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hey

I live in NYC, your girlfriend sounds like a douchebag. Why? What kind of low class piece of garbage tells you how many times they screwed their ex boyfriend? Sounds like a douche to me, I would dump her, you answered your own questions. There are thousands of babes in NYC. Ditch her now,
 

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Lol. She's well past her prime and she knows it. Like Rick James would say "The milk's gone bad!"

This is what happens when attention ho's get older.

Uhm, why are you even wasting your time with her?
 

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I get jealous because I questioned my interest in her from the start because she in in her mid 40s and very obese (165 lbs at 5'4"), and that there are so many more opportunities for fertile/more beautiful woman in NYC.
If you are not attracted to her, then WHY are you with her? Maybe she is throwing the Pete Sampras thing in your face because she is aware of the fact that you don't see her as beautiful or someone worth being with.

Maybe if you appreciated her looks every once in a while, she wouldn't have the need to bring up the fact she was a hottie back in the day and f*cked Pete Sampras.

And if she's so disgusting that there's nothing about her looks you can appreciate, then by all means dump her ass and find one of those more fertile/beautiful women in NYC.
 
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You are either a troll or a desperate fool!!!!

What the hell are you talking about!!!!

A hor is a hor regardless if she 'slept" (read fvcked!!!!) an effemibnate shy tennis plater!!!!

What the hell is your point?????

That you like like fat hors????

Welcome to America basterd!!! Join the, "I like the fat hor club"

You are a life member!!!!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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